I cant make you love me

hmm..sounds very sweet. Girls, are always difficult. That's just how we are LOL Relationships for that matter..will always tend to be confusing. It sounds like you are alot like me..you are over analyzing the situation. If you care for this girl..take each day as it comes. Be honest w/ her and show her your intentions are real. But, don't ever let someone take advantage of you! There could be others that she is persuing at the same time bc like you said, you two aren't official. It doesnt mean her feelings for you are any less. But, She may not have any other guys and might be feeling what you are feeling and is just scared to commit to it at the moment. My advice would be..to relax. Enjoy the time you spend w/ her. Let her know how you feel (not in an agressive way of course) and see what comes of it. Give it some time, everything will come together...I hope I didnt sound too cheesy! LOL Good luck w/ your girl!

be patient and wait..it may be annoyin to hear that but it will come when its time.

hmm.. its common case believe me. i have seen thsi type of girls. may be she thinks you just a best friend, not as lover? it also acn be the acse? why don't you ahve a clear chat with her reagrding her feelings? you ahve to make it clear.

It sounds like you are reading too much into it. I think she looks at you as just a buddy but who knows. Girls these days send many mixed messages. I have a daughter who does and I am forever getting after her for it. She shrugs and says that is just how she is. She is very huggy and kissy and I can see that some of these guys think they have a chance with her when in fact they do not. i have seen her when she is in love with a guy. She is 100% faithful and into the guy. she ignores all her other "buddies". It amazes me that when she is single again that all the same ones flock around and still think....just maybe. They are just her friends...nothing more.

Thomas, My little advice is to be happy. Try be honest with her and show her how much you love her. Women like honest man and man with decision. I´m sure she likes you a lot!!!!

Sounds like she is stringing you a long. She wants her cake and wants to eat it too. Some girls just like the attention that they get from a guy who she knows likes her. It makes her feel wanted, needed and beautiful... I think you need to come clean with your feelings. Communication is the key to any relationship. I think if you don't get clearification on what her feelings are for you, you may wind up getting deeper into it all and come away scarred and hurt. My advice to you is to go talk to her....

First and foremost this girl sees you as her friend, and if you continue to be mr shy guy she will continue to. You need to start being more direct, because she just might like you too. Start asking her out on dates, and please let it be in the nights.If you ask her for lunch she still will see you as her best pal,so ask her out at nights and let it be somewhere intimate, where couples go to have dinner.She will seem frustrating to you because you fail to take charge of the situation. If by chance she ends up not liking you like that,at least you would have gotten things in the open. Then you can move on while still having her as your friend.

If you want to get her, you need to back off of her. Girls don't like it when guys go all out. They want a challenge and to hunt you and win you. Start seeing another girl or at least make her think you are. Take a girl out. Tell her it is starting to get serious and then sometime later when hanging out with her tell her that you left her because she wasn't...some made up reason. Act confident around this girl and make her earn you. Don't be too easy a catch for her otherwise she won't be excited by you.