Marriage: Life or death

Philippines
February 19, 2008 12:24am CST
They have been telling me that marriage is like putting ropes in your neck. since i'm not yet married i want to hear from you guys what you think about it?
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5 responses
@eunixia (387)
• Philippines
19 Feb 08
hi jaymar, It depends upon the situation, when you want to get married, you should prepared emotionally & financially. Be good enough in choosing your partner because marriage is a lifetime commitment. No turning back once you get into that relationship. This is now the stage for preparing for the responsibility of family life. Easy-to-follow secret. Just a share. it's me, eunixia
• Philippines
19 Feb 08
yeah i agree with you. I just felt that marriage is a lifetime learning and adjusting no matter how much you know your husband. i guess you are a person of commitment and believes the real purpose of marriage.
@eunixia (387)
• Philippines
19 Feb 08
You should embrace all the imperfections. Be not suspicious with your partner. Love all the time.
• Philippines
19 Feb 08
This is a good one. two thumbs up
@wisconsin26 (3859)
• United States
22 Feb 08
No one says you have to marry someone, No one says it's a must... People get married because they are in love with each other and want to be with each other, However I think alot of people get married cause they don't want to lose that person from there life... Meaning they will go on finding someone else.. And they don't want to be alone either..
• Philippines
22 Feb 08
Then if that would be the case, What could be the purpose of marriage? Does the persons marries that someone so that,that person will be bound to him/her? anyways thank you for the views you have some points to what you said. i appreciate it.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
19 Feb 08
Hi, From my experience it is not only rope in my neck but it is big poke into my heart too. My daughter is also in the custody of the person whom I had married. Also demand a large amount. I hope it depends upon the spouse on gets and how well they move on. To get a better spouse is one of the greatest gift of God. Hope it will achieved soon for you.
• Philippines
19 Feb 08
really? sad to hear that. anyways i hope you could have your daughter back. Isn't it that loving somebody gives him/her the privilege to hurt you as well? i guess you have a good point to that?
@zabmer (36)
• India
21 Feb 08
They say marriage is a bliss also......those who found marriage like putting ropes in your neck are few of the negative side of the coins.Every day has a night.You should not allow yourself to be put off.Best is to see it for yourself what marriage is.
• Philippines
22 Feb 08
how did you find it zab so far?
@Saicows (113)
• Brazil
20 Feb 08
Life jay... If you marry, then you´re no longer alone..
• Philippines
21 Feb 08
Saic. your the man!