Do you sometimes dislike people instantly for no reason?

I have never been given the chance to be a people person. I am one of those people who is always judged from the instant that someone lays their eyes upon me. I have come to judge some people right off of the bat also now that I have grown older because I have tried so many times to be someones friend only for them to stab me in the back and treat me badly. I am always on the lookout for those type of people and I do not have any friends in my life because I am so tired of the way they do me.

Yep! I know what you're talking about. I don't know how or why it happens, but it does. Most people I like. But I'll get a real bad feeling about someone, and eventually something happens - usually not to me, because I try to distance myself from that person (which has bothered friends and family, until I was proven right).

sometimes if i dont like the person image or action i immediately dislike..

I do this a lot of time, there are people who I don't like at first sight and I have failed in judgements only a few times. I don't like aggressive people and attention whòres so it's easy to spot them at first glance. But sometimes it's only an irrational thought, coz I've known a guy who's THE attention whòre but he's really a good guy

When I was young ,I used to do something like that,but changed my opinions after I had got along with the guy a few days later.But now ,I won't do this.^^

I would have to say not instantly and it wouldn't be for no reason. I like people and generally I accept most people but there have been a very few I just couldn't make myself like. My husband now had what he called a best friend who didn't work, spent weekends at our home, drank like a fish, made passes at me behind my husband's back and was a big talker. I could never make myself like him at all but didn't push my dislike onto my husband. Finally, he saw what kind of friend he truly was, and I haven't seen him since. I guess it's true about first impressions.

yes this has happened to me many times. when it does i listen. why? because of what happended to you. when i have that feeling of oh i don't like this person i am having that feeling for a reason. when the bells and whistles go off, i go the other way! we are made up of vibrations. like when someone says i get a bad vibe from that person. when you feel someones vibe is off honey run.

Yes it is perfectly possible. We have "love at first sight" and so naturally, "hate at first sight" might exist too. But usually, if you really try hard to analyze the reason behind your dislike for someone, you will know the reason. You don't need to tell anyone why but you will likely know.

yes i do feel the same...... don no how i can find people from the first sight itself whether they wil adjust with me or not....if i don feel like that i will evade them

I have met two individuals who became a classmate during college. I really didn't like them at first glance since, I don't know, something about them that exudes which I really don't like. Later on, I got to know them and confirmed how I don't like them more. As I try to elborate, the saying "don't judge a book by its cover" doesn't apply everywhere, their facial features of those two classmates of mine have that arrogant display which also complies with their attitude and behavior. They are only nice to those who they think they are better than. And get annoyed when other people contradict their seemingly authoritative reign. Quite those pompous types I guess. Anyway, I kept those things to myself for I really don't like having enemies at school. I just tolerate them sometimes and then when they are gone, rant about it in a way that others wouldn't figure out who I was referring to. Really vxing, they were. ^_^;

This is very much possible. We tend to become judgmental at times so even if we do not really know the other party that well, we already conclude that we dislike them. Of course it is important that we also give them a chance to prove themselves. Who knows? We might just change our minds about them. I have personally experienced this several times already. What I do is to give these people a chance. I get to know them better.

I'm at one and one for disliking someone instantly. 1 was in a bad mood, but he was a good guy, I married him. 1 acted nice, but the hair on the back of my neck would stand up every time he looked at me. When the background check on this guy came back, he had been a wife abuser. He lost his job and I could feel less like something evil was about to happen to me at work. Take care and thanks for this discussion.

It is weird, that even though I am a peaceful and friendly person, I sometimes feel strong disgust towards some people that surround me in the college. And I do not know what really causes this feeling. But, gladly, there are very few people whom I dislike.

Absolutely. And there is always a reason for the dislike, whether we are aware of it or not. Because most people are socially well adjusted, we can deal with those we dislike in an socially acceptable manner. But I do believe that there are some people who trigger in us an unconscious response of dislike. Usually your instinct is correct. I have had this situation a few times, and occasionally early on I over-rode my inner alarm bell warning system. Each time it was to my detriment. I quickly learned to trust myself, while giving the person time to show me I was wrong about them. I have always tried to live by the thought that not everyone is going to like everyone all of the time, but I do not have the right to make their life miserable just because I don't like them. I can be pleasant, even while in self preservation mode.

As soon as I meet a person YES I get an instant feel for their character and if the feeling is dislike and REALLY intense...then I know to either avoid them like the plague or seriously watch my back with them....Being a former street kid, my sense of judgement with ppl is VERY fine tuned and I ALWAYS go with my gut instinct..Partly because its so accurate and partly because its never done me wrong, in fact its partly what kept me alive back in the day..

I am one of those people who will make a concerted effort to get along with and like everyone they meet until they do something to prove me wrong. A few times in my life I've disliked someone on first meeting and have gone with my instinct and kept my distance, this has initially caused some awkwardness with the person who introduced us but pretty much all of the time my instinct has been right... My husband is one of those people who will take an instant dislike to someone for his own reasons and he's been right on a few occasions but on quite a few others he's had to change his opinion as he's got to know the person. I would rather stay the way I am and give people the benefit of the doubt generally until they do someone to change my mind :)

yes, i do dislike people instantly for no reason, also i do love people instantly, all depends on the way you feel about the person at that particular time. mere looking at your face, i can read what you can do in the few seconds. i hate people alot and also i like people alot, all depends on my impression about them.

the same happens with me.can you believe once my fiancee was talking to a colligue for the first time on phone for say an hour.I instantly started getting disturbed whenever she used to call. i could make out everytime she called without even being told that it was her.I confided to my fiancee but he brushed my thought saying shes a lovely person with healthy thought and was married.But you know what in a few days he got to know what she wanted and dreaded her.Was puzzled as to how my sixth sense was so strong

It does not happen very often to me but I know exactly what you mean and when it happens I cant control it. I call it my gut instinct or my gut feeling. I never used to listen to it but as I have learned over the years when you get this feeling about a person,or a situation, go with it, because 9 times out of 10 you are usually right in your assumption the first time!!

I don't immediately start to like someone but I do sometimes start to dislike someone immediately if they have a disgusting face.