Good In-laws?? Or Bad In-laws??

Well, my first wedding, we had at a very small chapel and my parents paid for everything. His parents didn't even know we had gotten married until two or three months afterward. After they found out, they were shocked and livid that he had married outside of his religious beliefs (which is why he didn't tell them). My other two marriages we got married at the courthouse and didn't have any participation other than my parents making lunch for us and our guests. My 2nd marriage inlaws, were ok for awhile, until after we got married and moved closer to their home and believe me crap hit the fan then. They were so invasive, I wanted to pluck them off of the planet! My husband now is also my first husband and his parents mind their own business and they let us do what we will and they don't bother us other than to see the grandkids.

My future in-laws have done nothing but mock and insult our wedding itself since we got engaged nearly two years ago. So, they have not been included in the plans, they refuse to contribute anything and they probably won't even attend. I refuse to speak to them.