I loved but i got hurt....

We do have the same opinion on her problem. I guess communicating back with her former GF does not constitute cheating. However if she found out that he is flirting back or maybe dating with her again then I would say he really is cheating. I hope she would elaborate further what kind of coomunication his BF is doing before we could really know if the guy is really cheating or not.

Thank you... Ya right on that.

Okay but he did say that he chose to be with you. I think that is important. I am just wondering why you consider lying on that matter a very serious one. Communicating with the third party is pretty normal for as long as they are not doing anything beyond communicating. I have a wife that is still with contact with her former BF and I really do not consider that as cheating fro as long as I know and she communicates to me their conversation. I think you just have to trust your BF. I might say find a much more graver evidence than communicating. As I said before there is really no Mr. Right every now and then he will commit mistakes and the thing right there is if he didn't mean doing it its worth forgiving and loving him again for as long as you can.

There is... to lie on yur partner despite of the evidence that he still communicates with him is cheating. Unfortunately, this kind of girl exist. My boyfriend has a former wife back in anther country, my bf came back to phil to work because his relationship with his wife, is n the rock, his wfe follwed her here, but to her disappointement, the girl is living with her husband, however, the wife remain in the house until she gave up. And the girl doesnt want to leave the house because she get money from the guy. The same girl who'se trying to ruin our relationship. Before i started my relationship with my bf, the girl left the country to work overseas, and my bf told me clearly that he doesnt love the girl but the girl give herself to him, but then, he helped her to go to other country to start a new life. When we started our relationship, its allpeacefull, until my bf told that girl that he already found me and that he is happy with me, so, what happen is that, even though her contract is not yet finish, she came back to phil and insist to live with us, i ask my boyfriend to choose, and he choose me over her in front of her face. I thought everything will be fine, but then that girl is trying everything to ruin the relationship and to seduce him again...