Will you marry your would be when you come to know that he/she is not virgin?

now a days its hard to find a person who is really a virgin...as life says live in present n leave the past n think abt future...same ll i do

Virginity is a seal. Every one likes the sealed and un used gift. So, obviously I would also like a virgin fiancé. But if unfortunately someone pirated her virginity by force or by some evil practice, then I would like to support her to accept her partnership. I mean an innocent non virgin should not be punished by the member of society and we should give her the support to have a good married life.

If you are truly in love...which you should be before getting married...then you would accept the other person past as well as present. If you can not accept...then it isn't really love but expectations.

of course. besides, i am marrying the person for love and not because of any other reason. virginity issues are pretty much old fashioned nowadays. i wasn't my wife's first. her bf prior to me had her so drunk and did the unthinkable. when we started dating, she didn't have the courage to tell me about it. but after 2 years of boyfriend/girlfriend relationship -- she told me about it and i was totally enraged! i was so mad at the guy. not with her. i know the guy and i know what he is capable of doing. but still i loved her all the way. no more no less. virgin or not. and now we're happily married for four sweet years.

To me, virginity is not an issue. Afterall, you break virginity the first time, then? I would consider virginity if its a forever thing. But with all said, I think someone remaining a virgin upto their marriage is credible and should be honored.

I would prefer to marry some that is a virgin. Since I myself am one, and it would be a great experience for the both of us. Yet, if I really loved him, and He wasn't a virgin. I would still marry him, because love is the most important thing.

Neither my husband nor myself were virgins when we got married. He had been married before, and I had been with someone before, though I'd never been married. It didn't matter to either one of us, because we loved eachother. Virginity was not important to us.

There are more other important aspects to be considered in marriage life rather than we comply about his/her virginity, definitely you don't marry him/her because of her virginity, right? Nobody's perfect in life, even if she/he is virgin, there is something in that person that you won't find like your current fiancee which you already made him as the best choice, most of his categories is in your list. I prefer to let the past of his life even he made some terrible stuff in his past life. What I see now, is what He is now. He is not a young newbie guy anymore just like past time, he knows what is this and what is that. We should respect for it. If we respect and never take the talk of his past up the surface, the more he will give to us. Men if is rewarded/appreciated, they will automatically give us more without asking. They will keep the line in a balance. Good luck.