betrayal
By Rhamah
@Rhamah (42)
United States
6 responses
@rosey3223 (1566)
• United States
21 Feb 08
Well, considering I don't have any friends because they ALL seem to like to betray me, I'll up it up one and give you two betrayals!! The first one was my first real good friend of my last two years of high school. When we became friends, it was immediate and we were inseparable...then slowly she started changing. She was lying to me, and even though they were the little white lies, they became bigger and more serious the more I let her do it. Then she started demanding more attention from other guys and made me look "stupid", I didn't understand why until later I was told that she was jealous of me and thought I was prettier than her. Then we just stopped hanging out but we still talked...I know this really doesn't sound like a betrayal, but wait. After months go by and the friendship faded, I was asked to the prom. I told the guy to give me a day to think about it and he agreed. The next day at lunch I was going to talk to him, but to my surprise he was hanging with my friend and she was hanging all over him. When we talked I told him that I'd go with him but he told me that he decided to go with my friend instead. I asked why and he said that it was said that I didn't want to go with him so he just asked her instead. I WAS P!SSED!! Because not only did he ask her and she accepted, but SHE was the one that told him that CRAP! The sad thing is that I really DID want to go with him, I just didn't want to seem to eager!!
My second friend and betrayal took over the spot of the other friend above...before the incident. We also became inseparable...maybe THAT was my problem. But anyway, two years after we became friends we decided to move in together. Before we did, my family moved to a different state and I moved in with a friend of hers...we didn't have the apartment or anything really set up and ready. So I was on my own and in all honesty I messed up because I took to living a party life and lost my job. Two days after I lost my job my roommate tells me how my BEST friend didn't want to be my friend anymore and how she NEVER planned on moving in with me and that I needed to move out. I was so crushed!! I didn't understand why my "friend" just couldn't tell me this herself! Why when we first started talking about moving in together she couldn't have just said that she wasn't comfortable with it. If she didn't like what I was doing, why she didn't SAY something! I knew that I messed up by losing my job, and I was looking for another, I was trying to put my life back in order. But no, she sends someone to do her dirty work for her.
Those were the last "true" friendships I had. Needless to say I don't trust anyone to be a friend anymore.
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@RebeccaLynn (2256)
• United States
22 Feb 08
My so-called friend decided that she wanted my family because her husband didn't treat her as well as mine treats me. She had been complaining about it for a while and then she started showing up at my house dressed sl*tty and flirting with my husband.
I warned her the first time. The second time, I threw her out of my house permanently. So she saw my husband one day at a store and started flirting with him and he told her that she was trashy and I deserved a better friend than her. I have never spoken to her again.
@cr0ssf41r13 (866)
• Philippines
23 Feb 08
Well, my darkest secret is that I betrayed a friend. I stole her boyfriend away from her accidentally. It's just that her boyfriend and me became close when we met each other while they were in a relationship and he began to fall in love with me. I tried to stop him but it's too late.
They're still on their relationship, but the guy as wavering. I hope they would keep things intact.