Choose your love
By dk1087
@dk1087 (49)
India
2 responses
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
22 Feb 08
I don't believe in that saying...if you can't be with the one you love, love the one your with. I honestly think that is a bad thing to do. I have done that in my past and it ended badly. I hurt someone terribly because I didn't love him nearly as much as he loved me. If you don't love someone and they feel they love you, it's best that it is left alone and not to pursue it. Unless you feel that there is something there and you can build on it. If not, walk away.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
1 Mar 08
I totally agree. It's funny how most people can't live without anyone. They can't live without anyone branded as their boyfriend or girlfriend. To the point of desperately looking for someone when the other leaves.
I mean, why limit yourself with these two options:
a. to love someone who doesn't love you.
b. to be with someone who loves you but you don't love.
Why limit yourself with those if you can have someone you love and loves you too?
I think those who love someone who doesn't love them are freaks. Simply because they are like desperate people who eventually become stalkers and force themselves upon a person who can't really stand them.
On the other hand, those who go for someone even if they don't love them simply is pitiful. Pitiful since they don't fully appreciate themselves to the point of thinking that no one else could love them as much as they deserve to be. Whew, talk about low self-esteem.
=)
