I feel dissapointed!

dear I'm so sorry to hear your having this problem but you are right to vent - much better than keeping it inside and letting it eat at you. As for suggestions I'm afriad I'm no help there - I was raised by an alcholic father who even after the doctors told him to stop drinking or else he continued to drink and it ended up killing him. The only way I know for a person to quit drinking is for THEM to decide it's time to quit and then they will find the strength to do it. But if they don't want to quit nothing in the world is going to make them do it. I will keep you both in my prayers though.

Wow Mima. Your husband has gotten himself into quite a mess. Sad that he didn't learn a lesson from the first occurance. Personally, I feel that if you offend once you need to have your license revoked for a long time. There should be terms that the offender would have to abide by in order to get the license back. Very strict terms. If they offend again they need to have their license revoked permanently. They are a danger to other people and to themselves when they drive under the influence. I am saddened that you have to shoulder the burden of his offence. Perhaps you should buy hum a bicycle or have him take a taxi or bus. Big huggers to you.

I'm sorry. That is awful. I wish he would have learned from the first time because now it makes things even worse for you all. I hope for your sake he has learned his leasson this time. Best wishes to you both. i know it must be very frustrating and depressing to deal with.

I am sorry to hear about your husbands problems. All I can offer is prayer for you and your husband that he may see the error of his ways and the worries that he has caused you. It's okey that you vent here because I find that there are times that i need to vent too and boy! it does help to make me feel better. So I hope that it does help you to vent here. Have a nice day!

Anyone that knows me, knows I will never have any sympathy for a repeat offender. Anyone can make a mistake, but more than once is totally unforgiveable selfishness for any living thing on the planet. My sympathy lies totally with you. You cannot decide nor be responsible for the choices your husband makes. You do know there are concequences for your family after his carelessness. If he does it again, it could end up being murder. What if his mother, or you and your child were in a car, and he hit it, or was driving it and had a crash? He could be in prison, how would you pay his fines? Taxis are really cheap compared to that. So is a baseball bat to the head, when he weaves around and says-"I'm going out anyways, whatcha gonna dooo?"

Feel free to vent anytime sweety - we all need to do that sometimes! i am so sorry that your huband has put you through this but you have nothing to feel asahmed of sweety you are not responsible for what your husband has done so please do not blame yourself! As for getting him to stop drinking - I'm afraid that he is the only one who can do that , he won't stop til he is ready but for your sake as well as his I rally hope that he will see the light now. I will be thinking of you Hugs xxxx

I think he has made it a habit for himself. you have to take acre that he does not indulge in it so often haVE a clear talk with him ands ee what he has to say in his defence.

I know how you feel. I've been there. You can't help those who don't help themselves. They don't realize who all they hurt. All you can do is pray for him to get help or waking up before its to late.