how do you think homosexual people around you

I'm new to this but i found your judgements shocking. Homosexuals never ticked a checkbox and chose to be gay, neither did they get influenced by the people around them and their upbringing. Becoming homosexual is not possible, accepting that you are gay is. The point is that people do not choose to be gay, bi or lesbian, and accepting that they are any of these is being proud of it is like accepting happiness, and giving yourself the oppurtunity to be happy, and confortable, surely everyone should be allowed this right? The right to happiness? And if your son did turn out to be homosexual, and you couldn't accept him for who he IS, not what he CHOSE to be, then it is enough to destroy a person. This is the 21st century, todays outlook on life is to live life to the full, be yourself and do what you as a person feels right. It is not all based around tradition and so-called "norm". What is normal? Normal is whatever you want it to be. There are certain things you can't help, certain things you're born with and certain things that feel right to do but may be condemned by others. I suggest that you and any other people that have issues against homosexuality open their mind to it and accept these people for who they are, not what you want them to be.

i meant "new to this" as in "new to this site" not "new to this concept" by the way

I have the same idea as you .the most important is if you are happy, if all will be ok, they will be good .