Are you married man/woman?

@julianarw (1521)
Netherlands
February 23, 2008 12:40pm CST
How long have you been married? Do you ever cheated to your partner? Mostly about what you and your partner have arguments or fights??
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12 responses
@elemental69 (1561)
• Ireland
23 Feb 08
Hi, I have been married 3 years to a great man and have 4 great kids. NEVER have I cheated on my husband and never will. The only thing we would argue about is why he will never say no to me if I want to do anything or buy anything. His answer??Because he loves me too much.....:-)
@julianarw (1521)
• Netherlands
26 Feb 08
What an sweet of your hubby. thanks for ur response
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
27 Feb 08
3 yrs of marriage 4 kids what a performance i am ikpressed
• India
1 Apr 08
Elemental 69- Dat was d SWEETEST thing i have ever read 4 a long long time.:) u r so LUCKY.
• United States
4 Aug 08
I have been married for a little over a year. We have a 7 month old daughter. Most of the time we get along real and our relationship is comfortable. Sometimes we do have communication problems. He speaks Portuguese fluently but is still working on his English. I've learned not to take what he says so seriously because usually it comes out incorrectly.
@plumwish07 (4057)
• Indonesia
26 Feb 08
i am married woman. i married on early 2005 so it means i already 3 years at this moment. arguments and fight i think normal happened in marriage life as long as we know how to respect each other. but sometimes when we were really loosing control of emotion, it would be turn into fighting each other. cheating? what do you mean by cheating in here, my dear friend? would you be more specific?
@julianarw (1521)
• Netherlands
26 Feb 08
You were right, fight in marriage life is normal as long as we still have respect for each other. thanks for ur response.
• United States
1 Apr 08
when my wife and i have a disagreement i don't run off and drink in a bar or see a strip bar or "lady of the evening" to get back at her..although i have friends who sometimes do this...but it would cheapen the marriage to do someting equally or worse to get back at getting into an arguement with your partner...i have been married before and we both used to go off our separate wasys for ahile and "sow" our wild oats..so to speak but in the end this just causes for bigger problems later...cheating is cheating and the guilt eats away at a relationship in one way or another...sometimes you get away with night out on the town or a "quickie" but these are the thinkgs that wil haunt you if you have any conscience alt all..it seems like in the movies and the tv drama this goes on a lot...but don't believe what goes on on the big and little screen...cheating is cheating..it creates a wall between partners..and it could develop into something like STD or getting someone knocked up ...or
@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
24 Feb 08
I've married for 9 years and we do bicker. Bickering sometime makes us understand each other more. For the cheated thing that depend, is a little white lies consider cheat?
@julianarw (1521)
• Netherlands
26 Feb 08
Thanks for ur response
@Verity (851)
12 Aug 08
Wow! What a query. And what about you? Why are you asking this query? Well... to respond your discussion, I had been married for 15 years to my late husband who passed away 10 years ago. During the existence of our marriage, both of us behold and cherish the vows we made in the Holy Sacrament of Matrimony because we believed in the sanctity of marriage. We do preserve fidelity as we respect ourselves. When arguments intervened, we tried to resolve it harmoniously in order to preserve peace between uss. We do not let arguments dominate our well-being. So, how about you?
@emarie (5442)
• United States
1 Apr 08
I've been married for 6 years last month. I've never cheated on him and he never cheated on me, we both believe that something like that is wrong and the underline problem should be addressed first. What we have fights about...mostly me...i'm stubborn and i have a hard time opening up about my feels. intimacy was another thing because i was on hormone medication which made me have a lot of mood swings and not be interested in him or love making at all. finances...like most families we're working from paycheck to paycheck and its only his paycheck as well. he likes to spend and i want to save...so we have some issues about 'his' money and me getting worried.
@youless (112497)
• Guangzhou, China
1 Apr 08
I have married for 5 years. We have never cheated each other before. There is no reason to do so. We have a boy and have a happy family. The cost will be so high if we ever cheat in our marriage.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
27 Feb 08
I am married since 5 yrs no i have not cheated her well nothing specific, some general thing and mostly due to my readin habit LOl
@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
9 Mar 08
I am 51 years old, or will be in a couple months. I was married when I was 26 for the first time, although we lived together for 8 years before we got married and had 2 children. I then got a divorce when I was 32 and stayed single till I was 40. I have been living with a man since then so that's almost 11 years. I won't get married again because if we break up it is too costly to get a divorce again. My boyfriend was married twice before me and he feels the same way as I do about it, so it's not a problem for him either, that we don't get married. We have our fights, maybe more than most, since we are both very strong headed and stubborn. Most of our problems and fights are about money, or should I say, lack of it. But we are muddling through them.
@madlees (1377)
• India
9 Mar 08
Hi, I have been happily married for the last 31 years and still going strong, Touch wood... Both of us have a very transparent life, no secrets from each other and so no cheating.. Whatever decision we take it is well talked and then decided. We have two children, both are grown up now. Arguments and bickerings will be there in a married life but that should not be the be all and end all of the marriage. You should know when to stop an argument. Shouldn't brood over it.. keep talking about it. Just leave it and forget about it.. All the best
• United States
26 Feb 08
I am divorced. We argued a lot once the baby arrived. I was ready for a child & he wasn't. I would marry again but I would definitely be more cautious this time.