Finding that someone to play with
@Princesspanties83 (31)
United States
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
23 Feb 08
It can be rather complicated. Depending on your current relationship status, where you live, and how open people in your area tend to be, it can be very hard to find someone.
Another issue is that a lot of people who are on the dating or hookup type sites are looking for something more than just experimentation. I know I've played the role of being an "experimental" partner for someone who later decided they were straight, and that played havoc with my emotions. So finding someone just for "play" could be kind of difficult.
@Princesspanties83 (31)
• United States
23 Feb 08
Well I am ALWAYS upfront about the fact I have a boyfriend and he is not involved at all , but he does know I am bi.
I am really looking for a best friend with benefits. I guess the fact that I am picky doesn't help , I am not picky about looks more like that persons lifestyle and how they see themselves is more of what I look at .
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
23 Feb 08
*nods* I'm picky about things like that too, so I understand.
My previous poly relationship involved someone who was already my best friend beforehand, and that worked out well for me while it lasted. I've kind of looked since then, but not too seriously I suppose. Having a husband and child makes it so I really have to think about who I would involve in my life.
Good luck to you! Sorry I couldn't offer any real advice.
@Princesspanties83 (31)
• United States
24 Feb 08
That's ok I understand it is hard to really tell someone what to do but at least your open and understanding lol .
Being in the BDSM world brings me a lot of submissive men but it seems like submissive or switch bi or les women are a rare find around my area.
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