Could you date someone ugly?

@MsCYPRAH (394)
February 24, 2008 7:33pm CST
Can you date someone regardless of their facial or body appearance? Does beauty have to be on the outside as well as the inside? Anyone who says that beauty doesn't matter in some way is likely to be lying becaus,e no matter how wonderful a person is on the inside, it is the outside covering that appeals the most before we get to know that person. But what do you think?
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• United States
25 Feb 08
I dated a guy who we could say wasn't good looking. No one wanted to be with him.But he was a nice guy. And thought the world of me. We dated a couple years. And than he became a total jerk. What I think is funny though is how no one will have an interest in a guy until a person starts dating him. No one wanted him but as soon as we had started dating it was like everyone wanted him then. In the end he ended up being a total jerk. That was of course after he had me help him change his whole image. I was basically used. But what I would like to say is what may be ugly to one person can be beautiful to another person.
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@MsCYPRAH (394)
26 Feb 08
Yes, I agree with that being about personal tastes regarding what might be ugly or beautiful. It depends on cultural references. Thanks for the input.
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@ctrymuziklvr (11057)
• United States
25 Feb 08
I was with a man for 5 years and I have to say he was ugly...on the outside only! It was easy for me to get past it because as far as I was concerned he was gorgeous on the inside. He turned out to be a jerk...lololol...but that's a different story.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Feb 08
I can understand you but dont jerks come in all states of ugly and handsome, its the personality that makes or breaks a relationship when you get right down to it. I would rather be with a loving run of mill looks man who loved and respected me than with either an ugly moron or a conceited handsome jerk.
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
30 Sep 08
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What may look ugly in your eyes, might look beautiful in mine and vice versa. I prefer to look at a person's character first. I don't get attracted to a beautiful woman without a nice character. But having both will do wonders! I would find it difficult to date someone whom I am not attracted physcially.
@MH4444 (2161)
• United States
1 Jun 08
I have never looked at how a person looks to be attracted. That's not to say looks don't matter; but the personality has to match mine. All of it together has to match me.
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
26 Feb 08
Everybody is wearing different glasses to measure a beauty. I love yellow, he loves blue, she loves green, etc. Everybody expect perfect stuff, but alas life will never give the fullest of sweetest part for everyone. Every thing must suits to its proper slot. Dating with a handsome or so-so guy, if he can positioning himself in the situation, that's the most important part to me. ---- When you had decided to accept him/her, you had found the beauty on him/her...
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@Gesusdid (1676)
• United States
25 Feb 08
well no i cant its like if i did i would be feeling sorry for them. so it would be like a Mercy thing you know ? kinda bad on my part butim not the only one , i cant help it if i like beautiful women lol but all beautiful sometime do not have it all in right mind and the ugly ones do
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
31 May 08
I do not believe beauty or apperances does matter. It happens to me that a girl long time ago who I thought was in love with me who responded when I said I love her turned to be a saddist. Some of the people who are very beautiful likes people to admire them and respect them and they like to break hearts of other people. I always believe it is behavior that is more important than beauty. I like the words You are my friend no because of who you are or who I am, but who I am when I am with you.