A good Facade...

Nope we are who we are all the time. Sometimes we're sweet to each other, sometimes we bicker and sometimes we get cranky. [b]**AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~[/b]

Hi dear ayou, I believe a couple should be sincere and faithful to each other but not to put up a show in front of friends just to please them. Very often it is quite difficult to hide our real emotion even in front of friends. So I believe if we really pretend in front of others we will definitely feel uneasy and sorry for it.

My husband and I are pretty much the same people in front of others and in private. We treat each other just the same. i can not see that it is love when you treat your partner or spouse differently than you would in front of others. What is there to gain from this?

i have to say that my wife will enjoy my company with our friends and relatives so long they treat her respectfully. If anyone find faults on me or on her, she turns to be different and we have to leave the place peacefully.

Yes, my BF is always sweet to our freinds but serious when we are alone, for which I often complaine about him…… I don't understand why^^

My ex did that. Every friends told me my ex was gentle,warm-hearted and understanding, but he was totally different when we were alone. He behaviored very well before others but was very mean to me. Now I have boyfriend who acts the same before or behind my friends. He really takes care of me and my daughter. I am a little spoiled.