Whens the rght time to have children??? I want one but is it right...

February 24, 2008 9:51pm CST
I am in a relationship with my boyfriend and we both want the same things out of life and we are madly in love. I know he is the one for me and we have spoken about marriage and kids. We want to make sure we are finacially secure first so we wouldnt just rush into it but we are only young I am 18 and he is 20. People usually doubt these sort of relationships but his parents are behind us and some couples I know have been together many years scince they where 16/17. Whats your opinion? xx
2 responses
@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
25 Feb 08
You both must first become self dependent to move ahead in life. Marriage is a kind of huge responsibility and to begin family is even greater. It requires lots and lots of guts and courage to adjust after marriage. I feel you are still young and you can wait for another 2-3 years, before you decide to get married. Anyway, my best wishes are with you.
@jhl930 (3601)
• United States
25 Feb 08
I think that if you are that in love that you know that you want to spend the rest of your lives together...then there really is no wrong time to have a baby...just make sure that you are ready for it in the pocket book and wallet lol but other than that if you two really love each other and know what you wnat..there is no wrong time to have one