Is my dog too mean?
By dmm1932
@dmm1932 (46)
United States
February 25, 2008 1:21pm CST
Okay, I need some help here. First of all, I have two German Sheperds. Vito is almost 9 years old, and Benny will be 1 year in April. My husband thinks it is a good thing that people are scared of our dogs. When someone is walking by our house and we are outside, my husband will whisper, "watch 'em Vito" and he will start barking, hair standing up and everything. He does not move at all, like start running towards people or anything. My husband thinks it is just hilarious. He is teaching the puppy to do the same thing. Okay, I get that they are protectors and everything. But does he have to make them appear mean to other people. Now, they are NOT mean dogs. They have never attacked, bitten, chased, etc anybody, EVER. But people THINK the dogs will attack them. So yesterday I was in the back yard with the dogs. The puppy is taken out on a leash since he is not fully trained. But Vito knows to stay in the yard. He is well trained and listens well. There was a woman jogging past our house. Vito went near the edge of the yard, barking, hair on end and everything. He never left our yard. This lady started screaming. I mean, she was screaming like the dog was chasing her trying to bite or something. Maybe she was just a person who is afraid of dogs. I thought she over-reacted just a bit. But then again, I am not afraid of dogs at all. I did not call him back at first because he was in our yard. When I did call him, he came to me. The lady never stopped jogging, and the whole things lasted about ten seconds. But now I keep seeing it over and over in my head. My husband thought it was funny when I came inside and told him about it. I did not think it was very funny. The poor lady was really very scared of my dog. I think that had something to do with the way Vito reacted also. It freaked him out the way she was screaming. I would like some feedback on if this is something that I need to correct in his behavior or if this is normal. We have had him since he was a pup. He has always been quick to "put himself on guard", but has never been mean towards anybody. Any advice would be helpful.
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
25 Feb 08
Ok first of all let me tell you, I am not afraid of dogs, but do have a respect for them and if a dog came to the edge of a yard and started barking with the hair up like that, yes, I would think this dog is going to bite me..
It is up to you whether or not you want to change her behavior, but since she isn't a pup, it will take time. If your husband is against changing her behavior, then you might want to check into fencing, that way people won't be afraid as they walk past your home. Because even if your dog didn't bite anyone, your neighbors could complain because of the fear.
Now, let me tell you a ironic story. When I was a teen, I was walking my dog and this black/brown German Shepherd that was a retired police dog that knew me, but because I had my dog with me, she bit me.. Since then I said I wouldn't get a German Shepherd for my own. I have gone up to them if I knew them, but since I had kids, I am much more respectful of them, like I would a Doberman or rottwieler, I see them as a guard dog.
I am now in my forties and just 6 weeks ago, my husband brings home this beautiful stray white dog. As I looked at her tail, I thought she must have shepherd in her, because it was the same tail as the one that bit me. Well wouldn't you know it, my daughter has a friend who knows all about dogs and she said this dog was a pure bred white German Shepherd.. I think because her color is not the black/brown I don't see her as a vicious dog. She gets along with my 5 y/o and I really have fallen for this dog..But I am glad that shepherds have this reputation, because we recently had someone try to break in. (In fact, it was only a couple of weeks before he brought home the dog this happened)
So, I would be careful because if someone was to walk their dog in front of your house, your dog could attack. (The retired police dog also listened to her owner and he was right there calling her, but she wouldn't listen that time)
So you have my advice. Fence her in, to protect those who are just walking in front of your home. But keep that dog, because one day, she just might protect you and your family..
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@dmm1932 (46)
• United States
25 Feb 08
That's one of the things I am afraid of, is that that'll be the one time he won't come when called. I love my dog like my child, and do not want anything bad to happen to him, or to anyone else. We have discussed fencing, but cannot afford it at the moment. I think I will just keep him on the leash at all times. Sometimes, I let him run free in the yard for some exercise, but that'll have to wait till we get the fence. Thanks for your advice. Good luck with your white Sheperd. They are beautiful dogs.
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
25 Feb 08
Yes, that is why I told you my story, because even though this dog knew me and the owner I remember was yelling very sternly at his dog, she didn't listen because she was intent on getting my dog.
I know fencing is expensive, but do you or your husband have the ability to put a dog run up? All it take is a couple of tree or something that size and strength to bracket in a rope to clip another rope or chain onto so you can hook your dog up.
That is what we have because we can't afford fencing and I hate the idea of tying the dog up, a dog run gives our dog room to run from the back door to the back of the yard..
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@steffyhoney (706)
• United States
25 Feb 08
My personal opinion I dont think its healthy for the dog at all. My dogs are very nice to people and kind and loving. They only bark if they have to and only protect if they have to. I never taunt him or anything. I feel thats bad because at one point in time the dog might think the person is doing something wrong and attack them. What if they dropped something iin the yard on accident and went to get it? I agree that its not very funny about the lady. I get terified when dogs come up to me when Im walking down the road. Or even when they come to the edge of the yard. You just never know whats going through their mind. I usually dont like dogs barking at me real mean for nothing. Anyways, idk if I was much help but I thought id give my opinion.
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@deebomb (15304)
• United States
26 Feb 08
There are so many stories in the news all the time about dogs attacking people. They usually are the pit bull, rotwilers, and Doberman, Seldom the ,but since there are these stories people will be frightened by a dog coming at them and growling with the hair standing up on the back of the neck even if they likes dogs. Your husband seems to have a warped sense of humor. Sometime someone will move just right and your dog might get out of control. I think it's a good thing that you are retraining him.
@herrygs (133)
• Indonesia
26 Feb 08
In my home I have 4 Chihuahua, they are so cute. we can each them to bark at some people or keep cool when our guest coming in.
As long as I know, dogs have instinct to obey their owner, like to play or defending himself.
I don't know wheter the lady like dog or not? usually dogs know people who ever have contact with dog or not from the smell.
I believe the lady hate dog and she over react.
Pay attention and give a good care to your dogs, they know that we love them and the will obey our instructions.
@Gesusdid (1676)
• United States
26 Feb 08
well its not good to taunt the dog to attack like that i mean already German Sheperds have the stero type of a bad dog , im not affraid of dogs , if one attacks me then i have the right to attack him back , bu tnaw dont taunt him so much cause if the dog flips out on someone who didnt do anything than that lands on the you guys the owners and a big mess afterwards
• United States
25 Feb 08
Not sure if this will help of not but I thought it wouldn't hurt to respond. I live with my parents at the moment and we have a Pomerania mix. She's about 3 years old and ever since we've had her my dad likes to antagonize her by saying (in regards to me), "get her," "attack," "watch her," etc. And when it comes to any and all outside noises he likes to get her hyped up. Dad thinks this is funny to see her get worked up. About two weeks ago I was trying to get a package off the front porch. Sierra started barking, growling and snapping at me for no reason. When I told her no and to go lay down she tried to bite me and all I was doing was opening the front door and stepping out side then back in. She finds this behavior appropriate because this is what dad has taught her. If I look at her, try to pet her, feed her, water her, play with her or sometimes just walk by her she'll growl and snap at me. Dad doesn't think she's hurt me but I believe she will. Dogs shouldn't be taught to be mean by being taunted or antagonized but to be protective with the right commands and teachings. I hope this helps.
@dmm1932 (46)
• United States
25 Feb 08
Thanks for the comment. It is helpful. I have been telling my husband for a long time that it's going to be a problem at some point. I have started today working with my dog to get him accustomed to strangers without being defensive. We went for a walk around the neighborhood this afternoon. Several of my neighbors know him, and are not afraid. I asked them to walk towards me and corrected him when he started barking and put his hair up. Hopefully, this is a bad habit I can break. He's very smart, so I think it'll be okay. Maybe you should talk to your dad and tell him how you feel about the dog. Maybe he doesn't know the dog is trying to attack you. Good luck.
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