abortions ? who has had one ? what is the process ? what does it feel like ?
By britzsofly
@britzsofly (395)
United States
3 responses
@kitchen1616 (72)
• United States
9 Jun 08
well let's see....um...they kill the baby that's what they do.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
12 Jun 08
it is a very big deal, there are lives being destroyed and usually it isn't only the baby's life destroyed
what lives (other than the fetus) are being destroyed? I have had an abortion and it SAVED LIVES NOT destroyed them...I'm sorry but you prolifers REALLY NEED to stop looking at abortion as being a simple black and white topic, it isnt at all...
@ShadowBrook (71)
• United States
12 Jun 08
are you kidding me? if there are no babies in abortions, why have one? duh! there are mothers having abortions like they're changing clothes or shopping. it is a very big deal, there are lives being destroyed and usually it isn't only the baby's life destroyed. god put that child there and he knew that child long before the mother ever knew she was even pregnant, don't try to pretend that abortion doesn't kill because that's exactly what it does, it kills babies!!!!!!!!
@steffyhoney (706)
• United States
26 Feb 08
Well I dont really like talking about it. However I did have one and I cant lie to myself. I was 16 so that was 7 and a half years ago. At the time I felt I had to have one due to my sitution. I wouldnt say I regret it cause at the time its what I really really wanted, and pushed to get. Anyways, it wasnt painful. There was a small like twinge for a few seconds. Other then that it wasnt painful at all. Idk what they did with the baby, it was just blood. I wasnt to far along. However today I would never have an abortion again. At that time I felt that was my only option. However maybe it turned out for the better who knows. But I now have a 4 year old daughter that I love dearly. It took me 2 years to get pregnant because of the abortion as well. I wouldnt recomend one but its always your or whoevers choice.
@britzsofly (395)
• United States
26 Feb 08
so if you have an abortion it takes time for you to have another one ? wow ! deep story !
thanks so much for sharing.
@steffyhoney (706)
• United States
26 Feb 08
Yes I didnt know it at the time. But after doing some research I found that an abortion can expand the time on getting preg again. I guess it depends on the person tho. Anyhow, Youre welcome.
@venuslady226 (5)
• United States
26 Feb 08
I've had 2. the first one I was almost 9 weeks. They offered me laughing gas, but I was too scared that I would inhale too much and get sick, so I decided to feel everything. In which it was the most painfulest, but quickess pain ever. I've had a child before that, and at first it was like strong labor pains..then quickly ended.
The 2nd time I was knocked out but being asleep cost me an extra $300 so the second time it was almost $700. I recommend only doing it while asleep.
They talk to you and show you a video, and they take your blood test, then run some tests, then they do an ultrasound to make sure you are at least 5 weeks preg. Then they give you some pills for medication after its over.
The first time wasnt a great exp..cause we were all in the same room lying on a bunch of beds.
The second time, this doctor had a very professional, nice office-where you felt like you were in a nice hotel or something. And the room you rested in right after was completely one room-so you had more privacy. And I went home 15 min after it was over.