Why must people be judgemental of others.

I can answer this question a number of ways,but firstly let just let me say this,in societies where getting ahead is not the end all of their exsistance you won't find this problem,of course over here higher pop.less good paying jobs to go around,we compete everyday for affection at home,attention at school,attention at jobs for promotions etc..for relationships,friendships,social groups,it is easy to see why people judge others even in the year's presidencial candidates,the reason why we can't live and let live in this society is a matter of survival,we all judge by the way ,including you,if you are driving on a long lonely road in the darkness of night,would you pick up a older bearded stranger?no ?why not ?because you just judged him!right?if a judge sees a defendant dress in a suit and another in rags who will be judged less harshly?hillary clinton is judged to be a hard unfriendly candidate ,even though she is more experienced and is better as president than obama because he has no experience and is more softer,friendly ,he is in the lead right?the truth is you should know when to be judgemental and when to let things slide,so what is most important is your realistic view of who you are,don't assume you unattractive when you are and if you are not ,well there so many things you can do to change that,not a face lift but wear better more attractive clothing,or your hair the way you walk is very big in my book,showing more confidence to me is a big turn on!i have seen very attractive women ,with no confidence no thanks,how you speak,very important,i love the way holly hunter talks,or laura linney,or Reese witherspoon uuumm uumm!anyways what i am saying blame the game not the players,you have to be in the game to have a shot at winning!

It normal for human beings to be judgemental of others.Lucky,you realized that you used to judge others when you felt that others judge you wrongly.Its not a good habit to judge others.I dislike people who like to jugde others without knowing the real things/story/problem.To judge people in a positive way is fine,but to judge in a negative way is totally wrong.Its a sinful mistake.They tends to have negative judgement and will expose it to someone else.That's even worst. The karma itself have stated.People have mouth to say,eyes to see and etc..they use it to view others lifestyle,and their mind are always ready to judge what they see.They would love to share what they have judge(wrongly)..these may results to misunderstanding and hatred to others. I dont judge people when i dont know them.I try not to judge in a negative way.

We are humans and humans with opinions about everything and everyone. This is good this bad, this is right this is wrong. Anything that is out of normal accepted behavior of our society scares us-preplexes us and we need a reason to justify it so we form an opinion and we do not limit ourselves to just that we share it to. If we have authority or power(provided we can stay safe from strong retliation) we even go to the subject of our opinion and tell it point blank (mostly very rudely) what we think of him. We love isolating fellow humans as it gives us power over them. So its just our nature nothing else.

I think some of its in our nature to judge others but alot of it has got to do with our ego, and how by judging others it makes us feel bigger and superior than them. I am currently reading Eckhart Tolles Book The Awakening and it talks alot about this. I am still trying to understand it so I could be totally wrong here but it makes a little sense.

Good question,thanks for asking it,i had 45yrs of experience to come up with that answer,i hope you fair better than me with this problem!

yeah i think its human nature to comment on peolpe that you dont know , just to make us laugh for humerous reasons , and then the other part of that is people just have to say something cause they want some type of reaction out of you , as if they get off on that you know ?

I think its not only that we are only judgemental. But its good to judge it yourself and just do not go vocal about it. It can create problem there. If you keep mum and just act according to your judgement(like whom to avoid, what to keep away from) its beneficial actually.

people has a wrong way of jumping into conclusion at firsthand. maybe because people are born with envy and so their mentality is to spy on other people and talk nasty things behind their back. a crab mentality to be exact, it's when people pull you down and drag you to dirt whenever they see some success in you, if you have alot of money you can be sure to have alot of friends tailing in your back for obvious reason. people are judgemental, they judge people according to what they see and to what they think is right. not caring about how they live their lives and if they are living their life correctly.

There is a saying that when a person says something bad about you, it's really about him/her, not you. Meaning, people become judgmental because of their own insecurities about themselves. They "project" or transfer their flaws to other people so that they will feel better about themselves. This is the reason why I couldn't care less if someone has a bad thing to say about me. What's important is how I see myself.

I think the answer to your question is really very simple. We get older and wiser. LOL The older we get the more we realize that we don't know it all and that the universe does not revolve around us.

I was only judgemental when I was a kid for a short period of time. I had a really hard life so I couldnt be judgemental of anyone really. I think its just in human nature to be that way. Some people do it to look big. I know a few people that judge others and say things and I dont like it when they do. I think its wrong. They dont know the person and further more there may be serious reasons behind what they happen to be judging.

some people are judgemental because they under estimate the ability and didnt know how they break the heart of the person they judge.