Do you think you can have too many friends on mylot?
By kimbers867
@kimbers867 (2539)
United States
February 26, 2008 2:07pm CST
I'm torn with this because I see some people have tons of friends and other's don't. I'm hoping to be at a happy medium with this. LOL
I know for me personally, I don't ask everyone to be my friend, because then I think I would never get off this site.
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@icyorchid (2564)
• United States
26 Feb 08
Hi Kimbers,
I don't know, I only have 15 friends and I think that is good enough. lol
I mean maybe a few more, but I am the same as you I would never leave mylot and I have way too much to do to stay on one site all day. lol
Good Luck with the question :)
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@icyorchid (2564)
• United States
27 Feb 08
I am staying caught up too :)
I do this once in the morning and once in the evening if I can. It is actually fun doing this. :)
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@kimbers867 (2539)
• United States
27 Feb 08
I have been able to stay caught up so far. My inbox isn't liking it though!!!
@zeloguy (4911)
• United States
2 Mar 08
I am in that cookie right now... I have a couple friends that post a LOT (MOOCH) and it is hard for me to keep up. I took a week off and have been busting my butt trying to catch up and I still have over 300 e-mails in my box to answer and haven't posted anything for over 2 weeks....
You also have to match up with people that you have a common interest with. If not you are reading stuff that you know you are not going to answer (or try to give a BS answer) and that is not what we need on here.
It's not the quantity but the quality!
Thanks
Zelo
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@kimbers867 (2539)
• United States
3 Mar 08
I was wondering where you were - LOL. Hadn't see you posted anything all week.
So far, I have been able to stay caught up.
@KKKBsmom (1092)
• United States
26 Feb 08
my thereoy (ugh spelling) also .. my new way of thinking... if they start discussions that I am interested in.. then I am going to add them as a friend... then have it sent to my inbox when they post a new discussion.... only time I seem to respond is if they come into my inbox! LOL
so why not have interesting thoughts to me come into my inbox!!!
:0)
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@kimbers867 (2539)
• United States
27 Feb 08
Y, I like your thinking.
I just wish I had some time to go look at other discussions. That is my goal today since I am home again today.
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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26 Feb 08
Well, no i dont think it is possible to have too many friends on mylot but i do think that, for a friends list to work, you have to be careful who you allow on to it. I have a number of rules before i let anyone on
1/ No one gets on without 100 or more responses
2/ no one gets on without answering a discussion i have started or launching a discussion i have responded to
3/ no one gets on my list if their profile says 18 male, India, just because we would be adding all day
lol if all these critiria are met then I add anyone who asks
blessed be
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@girlgonefishing (2174)
• United States
26 Feb 08
I have only asked two or three people to be my friend so that I could send them information they requested. However, I have 6 pages of friends. People just ask me to be their friend and who am I to refuse someone?
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@Bluepatch (2476)
• Trinidad And Tobago
26 Feb 08
Maybe some people think of friends as a plus for themselves when they have lots. I personally like to communicate with my friends. So too many will be too many to handle. Still its good to have a lots of friends even if you don't write all of them. Like its something you'd like to have if you could.
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