A three yr old who knows it all?

United States
February 26, 2008 9:39pm CST
I would like to talk with other parents who have ben through this before. I understand this is normal and be that as it may, it can very nerveracking at times. What are suggestions to do WITH my three year old that can help calm usboth down after heated "naughty" time.
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@asgtswife04 (2475)
• United States
27 Feb 08
the best thing to do would be to start out with a time out. you do it for how ever many years they are to the minutes they sit, until they are older of course and understand why they are where they are. it gives you both a few minutes to calm down though so that you can lovingly do what you need to do to teach him better than to be naughty. I have a two year old that I feel like i'm constantly putting her in her room. It does us both good though. it gives her time to realize she's not supposed to be acting the way she is and it gives me a couple of minutes to calm down so i don't pull my hair out. they need to understand that that kind of behavior is unacceptable and that they will be seperated from you if they continue to do it. you can do this in a loving way and as you put him in him/her in their room and tell them that you love them, but they can't act that way and you will be back in a few minutes to talk to them about it. they understand more than we think they do at times and if your consistent with it they do get the point. good luck and keep us posted. God bless
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• United States
27 Feb 08
Thank you very much fro your help. Unfortunately, we have already done the time out deal and he caught on. He is a smart little devil. Our biggest prob is his mouth. He is very nasty and mean to everyone when he is upset. Thank you though if you have any suggestions to help with "relaxing" the mouth, Oh I would be greatly aprreciated
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• United States
27 Feb 08
Unfortunately, the only advice i can give you on their mouths is to smack them in the mouth. not hard, but it's the shock factor of it. My daughter has the same problem and can get very mean. I've had to smack her mouth a few times...i barely did it, but she got the point that she needed to stop. its all about shocking them. it's like "wow, mommy just smacked my mouth for me being mean...i better not do that again or she'll do it again." it doesn't have to hurt them...i actually barely touch her but she gets the point. i know that might sound mean, but honestly it's better to get it under control now than wait until they are older and you can't. God bless
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
7 May 08
I am just wondering where the smart mouth comes from as little kids tend to absord bad words from the people around them, so smacking might stop for awhile but think, where did they learn the smart mouth words? we adults often forget our kids will pick up on our own expressions and coming from a child's mouth it can sound pretty shocking.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
7 May 08
calm down a three year old. havea silly time and do something so silly and outrageous she will be laughing up a storm. laughter relaxes and defuses a naughty time and restores both you and your child to good humor try it it cannot hurt and laughter is good for our health.