What family member do you run to when in trouble? (your safety net)

Yes I am dependent on my husband when I'm in trouble or I'm worried, insecure etc. In fact he is the only family member I feel I can *really* talk to about my problems.

I had to think a bit before answering but I believe that, of all the family members I would turn to, it would be my older sister. She's 9 years older than me and when I was a kid was almost a second mother to me. The next might be her son, my nephew. I regret to say that my wife comes some way down the list but I am the sort who trusts friends more than family and I have many friends to whom I would turn for advice before involving family!