how to manage two wives.........
By mcarps79
@mcarps79 (1262)
Uganda
February 27, 2008 6:08am CST
I have heard that so many persons has two wives.....i think it will be gr8 hacic to handle 2 wives....
Perhaps they will manage like half night at first one and then next half night with second wife.....
If both were of typical nature....then life of such peoples will ruined at allllllll
So I think better not to go for second marriage.....if not needed....
5 responses
@slavezero (833)
• Philippines
29 Feb 08
There are some religion that allows that, as long as you can support them both. But i dont think I would settle for that kind of situation. It is really hard to manage.
I dont know how they able to manage that. And I dont understand how their wives take it. Knowing your husband will be sleeping with another woman the next day.
@mcbigboy (16)
• United States
27 Feb 08
One wife is great, but to much of a good things to not so good. I like to dream about have more then one. But the truth is right now one is all I can handle. I'm one of the lucky one, we have been married for 7 year and no fights. It think it would take the right kind of women to have more then one. I can see how time will be the biggest factor in keeping the peace. My dad said of anyone wants more then one wife they should have two and live with it..
mcbigboy
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
27 Feb 08
Yes. In fact, the religion Islam allows men to marry up to about 4 women if he can support them all. Lots of stories told about men having 2 wives, even my Muslim neighbors have more than 2 wives. My Muslim neighbor has 4 wives living in the same roof. As what I have heard, each wife has her own room including their child/children. It is possible that wife number 1, 2, 3 or 4 get jealous and argue over the other but they can't really do anything about it because it is legal for Muslims to marry 4 wives at the same time. They just have to deal with it. As for the husband, what I have heard from my neighbor is that during mondays, he sleeps in the room of wife number 1, then tuesdays with wife number 2 and so on and so forth. And during weekends, they all go out together. I can see them in malls, they're like one big happy family. A man, 4 wives and their children all together. It is just up to you if you can handle, be open-minded and flexible enough to take care of your spouses and to provide for their needs. If a husband can't handle them all, then only he can blame himself for making such decisions.
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