What are the things in life that you find hard to explain

By Bala
@balasri (26537)
India
February 27, 2008 8:11am CST
by putting them in proper words?
17 responses
@9676276 (264)
• Pakistan
27 Feb 08
Well! there r many things dat r pretty hard 2 explain.Like we can,t explain Why ALLAH(GOD) has done dis & dat etc...similarly we can,t explain Luck,,,
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@kiran1978 (4134)
• Australia
31 Mar 08
I think the hardest thing in life to explain and comprehend is why innocent people die either by tragic accidents, illnesses, diseases or even tragically murder. How can you explain that? You can't, I also would not like to hear the explanation that their time was up. To me that is not an explanation at all. Another one that is hard to explain to your children, is why is there millions of people living in poverty. How do you explain that to a child that has had, food, shelter and clothing. They would have no comprehension of this at all. Also how do you expain why some terroists kill themselves to kill thousands of others. There is no explanation for this insanity but they have something mentally wrong in their head.
@balasri (26537)
• India
1 Apr 08
Thanks Kiran.My discussion is the result of all the things that has been tormenting my mind.Sharing the thoughts is little comforting.They simply try to explain everything in a single word Karma which I just cannot take.That makes God cruel.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
4 Mar 08
When my niece ask me, why some people are poor and some are rich.. Why the sky is blue, hair is black, water is transparent.... Why we call mothers mother... I do not know how to explain. And being a very shy person I grope for right kinda words for expressing my fondness or love or when too much praising going on around. Blushes take over in those times.
@balasri (26537)
• India
4 Mar 08
Will you please tell her that Bala Uncle has asked you to tell these to her.Young minds have to be fed tirelessly. You can tell her that the children who study well and possess good characters will come up in life and wealthy where as the lazy and ill mannered people are poor till they realize their drawbacks to instill the value in her. Sky is blue because molecules in the air scatter blue light from the sun more than they scatter red light. Hair is black because it has black pigment melanin .(The paint God used.) Water is transparent simply because it does not absorb light which has colors. And do I have to be introduced to your famous blushes?lol
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
5 Mar 08
Dearest Bala, this is amazing and I do wish sincerely that mylot should start something like BC (best comment)as well. This is such an enriching experience and everytime I get to talk to you I am elevated in the process. Now I know where does Srinidhi gets her mind and heart from. Anoushka's going to love your explanations and me too. *cheers*
@balasri (26537)
• India
7 Mar 08
I am happy and my love to Anoushka and Mimpi.
@zeloguy (4911)
• United States
2 Mar 08
Try telling a child where babies come from... not the easiest thing in the world to do. Thanks Zelo
@balasri (26537)
• India
3 Mar 08
Yes .A guy told that the stork brought the baby,The child asked it seems' Who made love to the stork?' Si much for trying to explain.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
3 Mar 08
ha ha ha.
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@zeloguy (4911)
• United States
3 Mar 08
That's why God gave us belly buttons... as an out for that question! Hehe Thanks Zelo
@Mirita (2668)
• United States
27 Feb 08
Is hard for me to understand why would anyone would hurt or kill a child. To me children are angels who deserve our love and protection.
@balasri (26537)
• India
28 Feb 08
Yes I understand what you are trying to say.Certain unthinkable disgusting acts of humans are always puzzling.
@balasri (26537)
• India
31 Mar 08
I love children.You get the BR for that Mirita.
@Mirita (2668)
• United States
31 Mar 08
Thank you balasri ,and is nice that we both feel the same way about children.
@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
28 Feb 08
When my kids asked me how I had them. Its really hard to explain.
@balasri (26537)
• India
28 Feb 08
When you run out of God gifted and the Stork brought us it is time to tell them that they were inside the uterus inside the belly and doctor to them out.And so on.
@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
3 Mar 08
But for kids its really hard to explain as they will kept on asking for details.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
23 Apr 08
there are many things that are hard to find. one of them is my bad luck in whatever i do. then why i am never rewarded whatever hard way i do my work.again there are something those are hard to define like why my so called best friend cheated on me.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
31 Mar 08
there are many things that are hard to explain for me. why people who are so honest suffers the most? why the person whom you thought your best friends cheats you? why on earth there are some who are just too rich and some can't get a grain of food?
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
31 Mar 08
I feel, it is difficult for me to describe myself and it is difficult for me to make others understand my noble intentions....LOL! Sometimes, that it so happens that I get misunderstood... for no fault of mine....LOL!
@joy358 (491)
• Philippines
3 Mar 08
I find it hard to understand much less explain why people don't ever get contented with what they have. Why can't people be thankful and think of their less fortunate brethren rather than only their selves. Its so sad how greedy people can get sometimes and how evil the things they can do because of that greed.
@balasri (26537)
• India
3 Mar 08
It is because the world will be so boring with crowds of saints.lol
@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
31 Mar 08
The star ratings and earnings here at mylot. LOL. Why it can be raining when the sky is filled with sunshine. Why an innocent child standing in their yard playing can be hit by a stray bullet and in moments their life is cut short and yet their killers, if caught, continue to receive free meals and housing. Why some deathrow inmates live longer on deathrow than their victims did in life. I could go on, but I think you get the picture.
@balasri (26537)
• India
31 Mar 08
I got the picture very vividly Friend.As you say we can go in.But a little so,ace is sharing the thoughts and anguish among us this way.Anyway how may I call you please?You can call me Bala.After all we are friends .Aren't we?
@I_LUV_U (2519)
• India
27 Feb 08
I find it hard to appropriately word my emotions. I always find myself struggling to describe using words how much I love, how I care, how bad I'm feeling, how depressed I'm feeling, how difficult things are getting etc.
@balasri (26537)
• India
28 Feb 08
Your actions tend to speak more than the words at these situations.
@I_LUV_U (2519)
• India
28 Feb 08
Well, I was referring to expressing myself online.
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
27 Feb 08
Umm ..LOVE and Hate why does it collide sometimes?? it is hard to explain isnt??
@balasri (26537)
• India
28 Feb 08
I think that it is a way of strengthening the love more.
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@xialinye (1403)
• China
31 Mar 08
i find these: why are cigatettes sold in gas stations when smoking is prohibited there? if 7-11 is open 24 hours a day,365days a year,why are there locks on the doors?
@slavezero (833)
• Philippines
28 Feb 08
There are lots of things that is hard to explain...the moment a fetus is growing and developing in the womb of his mother and the wonder of giving birth... never loose its miracle to me, falling in love, the feeling of being hurt, the tears and the pain, a child growing right before your eyes... but seem not to notice it. Simple things but really hard to understand how it happens.
• Pakistan
3 Mar 08
There are many things in life that I find hard to explain by putting them in proper words. If I see a beautiful young girl, I want to express my loving expressions, but I could not get proper words to show my love to tell about my love. When I go in front of mirror of my dressing table I could not say the person standing behind the mirror tells me truth about my age. I use to think that I am young enough, but the mirror says that I am looser and I could not reply it. I could not speak before wise people because it could not cause to hide the truth of my foolishness. There are so many things in my life that I find hard to explain by putting them in proper words.
• Singapore
31 Mar 08
It is hard to explain life itself. There are a lot of things that is happening in our life and really difficult to explain, but we don't dare to search for the reason.