Mylot members you don't like

@cdparazo (5765)
Philippines
February 27, 2008 10:20pm CST
I just read through one of the discussions of one of my friends in mylot. It kinda amused me the play or words that were exchanged in that particular discussion. The insults and sarcasms hurled were simply terrific (I hope you won't think I'm pretty sick!). It is not the first time though that I have read through some nasty exhanges like the one that I just read and I started to wonder if any of you here have some disliking for some members here in mylot. No need to name those members to keep the biases out. Would appreciate though the reason why you dislike the member.
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@jhl930 (3601)
• United States
28 Feb 08
There are a few mylot members that I really don't like...because in some of my post they have used alot of curse words and it got my post deleted and that cost me money and things..so I didn't really like that too well..but luckily for me that hasn't really happened alot...i like most of the people that I have met here so far..not to brag...
@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
28 Feb 08
I don't like those who use a lot of curse words too. One could vent without cursing and have ones strong opinion come through without being really nasty about it. Thanks for responding!
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• Indonesia
28 Feb 08
My experince what cuold you are able for you to gather in mylot and you have long combine and produced by him how
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@urbandekay (18278)
28 Feb 08
He he he he he he he. Well, I have two window-lickers that follow me around making inane comments when the staff at the institution they live at allow them access to computers. all the best urban
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@urbandekay (18278)
28 Feb 08
Well, I don't really mind, at least it keeps them off the streets where they would be a danger to themselves and others and the drool and incontinence is easier for the staff to clean up while they stay in one place. all the best urban
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
28 Feb 08
So I am right. That is just your way of saying that you would terribly miss them. LOL!
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
28 Feb 08
What a following. They must be your most loyal fan club members. LOL! I guess you will miss them a lot whenever the institution staff decides to ground them for a day or two. All the best to you too urban!
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@justinus (1104)
• Karawaci, Indonesia
28 Feb 08
Well, well, I have just went through your profile, and you are Phillipino....I came from Jakarta, Indonesia, I visited Manila last May stay at Kimberly Hotel at PedroGhill street ....be careful I will go there and looking for you !!!
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@justinus (1104)
• Karawaci, Indonesia
28 Feb 08
Hey, I missed SQUIBB very much. Is it right my text of "squib" ? it is very, very delicious meal I got at Manila ....MABUHAY ...
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
28 Feb 08
If you go looking for me, you may have to scour the 7,100 islands that constitutes my country. LOL! I do hope that you liked your experience with my country and would have good words to say to your friends about it. One thing though, I live in the backwoods and thousands of miles from Manila. Finding me would surely not be a picnic.
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
28 Feb 08
I don't know what is 'Squib' unless its really 'squid'. Mabuhay to you too!
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@justinus (1104)
• Karawaci, Indonesia
28 Feb 08
Hello, I think so ! We are here looking for good chat or something better than we are facing today .... right ? at least something funny, let alone it's a worldwide public space, why should we make it not comfortable room !? But please don't take it very seriously CDPARAZO, I love you.....
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@justinus (1104)
• Karawaci, Indonesia
28 Feb 08
Hey,there CDPARAZO, you are wellcome. where do you come from ? don't say "I love you" too soon, I am normal MALE ...I can run after you ...! Hi...hi..hi... see you again.
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
28 Feb 08
Well it happens to be true. I profess to love you unless you happen to prove yourself unlovable. LOL! By the way, the same applies to every mylotters I meet here. he he he! I love them too.
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
28 Feb 08
I don't really take it seriously. A lot of times it just amuses me and made me wonder what kind of life they have. I admit though that are others that I just find too nasty and whose sense of humor I just couldn't understand. So I avoid them and I hope that they won't turn their nastiness on me. But members like you made this site wonderful to belong too and I thank you very much for responding. Lots of love to you too!
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@VAnnasamy (426)
• India
28 Feb 08
As long as the decoram here is not shattered, nothing to bother. Everybody has his/her own views and style, but when coming to public like this, one has to be discipline enough. After all everybody is friends here only and wants to hear something good. On the other hand, if one starts hurting others, it will only lead to heat exchangers and new clear (nuclear) war only. We are now global and it should be only global warming (with affection) and no global harming....
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• India
28 Feb 08
Thanks for your anylytical comments. Policing as well as polishing should also be done to curb such problems.
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
28 Feb 08
It makes one glad that mylot have members who do some policing, huh? One could report it and maybe have them suspended or banned if they turn out to be really bad. I like your analogy by the way. Thanks for responding!
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@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
28 Feb 08
There are no members on here that I do not like. I have not participated in discussions that are controversial as I stay away from them period. Once they start insulting each other and cursing it's no longer a discussion!
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
28 Feb 08
You have a good way of 'staying clean' so to say. But there are just times that I can't help myself and read through such discussions. I admit that it really entertains me. All I do is read them anyway and don't participate. But there are just times that I feel goaded too. Thank you for responding!
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@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
28 Feb 08
Oh I read some of them too but don't participate LOL
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@magnet (2087)
• United States
17 Jun 08
I don't really dislike anyone on mylot I don't agree with everyone and if I'm insulted I brush it off and forget it.
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
There were times that I was insulted but I also brush it off because most of them were not meant as an insult. All the best!
@subha12 (18441)
• India
28 Feb 08
I have got few members here that i also do not want to name whom i do not like,I know that we all share our problems here and get support,suggestion and all from fellow mylot members. But there is one who once answered my discussion in rude way. she thinks that i am taking my problems here with no reason and I am very negative person. I think when they comment so, they do not think what other person may be experiencing.
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
28 Feb 08
Keep it up and share your problems. You have friends to support you and that is what is important. Like you, I don't allow bad comments or words to discourage me. There are just people like that here and I just ignore them as much as possible. There are people too who may be experiencing something like you do and its good to share insights and it somehow lightens the burden. Thanks for responding!
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
28 Feb 08
I try to stay away from those discussions since i want my stay here to be as pleasant as possible... sometime... people tend vent out their rant here in mylot which i think is not nice... i also don't like it when they cruse and bad mouth other members... So right now... i like all members here in mylot... even the one particular person who was very rude to me... i consider that person as icing to my cake...
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
28 Feb 08
I stay away from them too but I also check them out. I find them to be very interesting people and very witty to boot. Jeez... must take a lot of creativity too to think of nasty but witty remarks. They must have lots of practice too.
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@mizcash (685)
• Canada
16 Jun 08
I really don't pay much attention to people and their curses, I just find it in poor taste that people curse, I never see the need to do it. But, no there is no one one that has offended me YET. Until then I will reserve my opinon.
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
16 Jun 08
I have been the receiving end of some rude remark a time or two but I just let it pass. Waste of energy and thought. I better concentrate on nice things to keep all my wrinkles away. LOL! Have a nice day.
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
28 Feb 08
I try not to dislike any members, but I sure dislike what a few of them do on here. I try to avoid controversial subjects, but sometimes read them just to see how people are behaving themselves. It is always disappointing when someone on my friends list ends up in an argument, or expressing a biased opinion. Whenever it becomes necessary to weed out "friends" the ones who show gross disrespect for other people's opinions go first, even faster than the ones who use inappropriate language.
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
28 Feb 08
A lot of us has biases and prejudices and I have friends who are like that too. I have friends too who can take bad or nasty comments well and seem to come out of it unscath and just treat them as part of life. I haven't really thought of weeding out friends yet and if ever I did, I may do also on the basis of biases or uncommon grounds. Thanks for responding!
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• United States
16 Jun 08
I've always envied the way others banter and play with each other. I am not versed in those ways. I'm always amused as well with the word play. It sounds mean sometimes with the words they say. But I think they are not enemies and only playing. However some members do argue and that is no fun. Be well. Have a beautiful day.
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
16 Jun 08
I do see it as just bantering and harmless needling most of the time. Sometimes I could ride on the bantering since its just the friendly kind. However, there are just some people here whose purpose in life is to be rude and hurtful to others. It's sad and a waste of energy actually and doesn't help upholding 'world peace'. So I stay avoid those discussions and those people most of the time...i don't want to have premature wrinkles because of them.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
17 Jun 08
The only members that I have disliked have been a few who flamed all my friends in his discussion but I think at least one of those was banned by mylot. but I do not ever flame anyone,if I am flamed though I have reported it. I pretty much love my mylot friends and members thank you.
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
I know of one or two members who got banned too. It kind of sad but they brought it upon themselves. Spreading venom is just a no no that it has to be stopped. I'm glad that they got banned.
@kittenmc (464)
• United States
16 Jun 08
I haven't met any yet that I really don't like. I have see some in discussions that I didn't agree with their point of view, but can't say I don't like them. I haven't been able to be on line much here lately, so I may find one or two that I don't care for once I have more time, but it's not my style to be ugly in open discussion. I would PM them and try and settle it that way. If that don't work, then I would ignore them.
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
Oh I have a lot of those whose point of views are so against mine but I can't say that I don't like them either. To each is his own and I fully respect that. If some are being ugly to me, then I just ignore them too. thanks for responding. all the best!
• United States
2 Mar 08
There is one member here that really drives me crazy. They are pretty much the holier than thou and what I say definitely is the right and true way. I've seen them get mean with other members that don't ascribe to the child care practices they do. They've even gone as far to claim that I'm a terrible, terrible person that should never be allowed to work with children simply because I disagree with what they say, not to mention how they say it. If you don't do what they think you should, you're automatically dirt beneath their feet. It's terrible really.
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
4 Mar 08
It is indeed bad. what works for them doesn't mean that it could work with everybody. That is one things that I have learned over the years. Also, a lot of people always thinks that they are right but they fail to realize that there is no wrong or right. Right or wrong is really dependent on the situation and perspective of the person judging the situation.
@dfinster (3528)
• United States
28 Feb 08
I can honestly say that I have disliked anyone except for one person when I firstjoined this site. She was comletely sarcastic when she posted comments to posts. Actually ahe was downright insulting. But that person kind of gradually faded away and I haven't seen any posts or responses from them so I thinkthey left this site. Otherwise I love the people here, everyone is really nice and really helpful.
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
1 Mar 08
I had the same experience too with one member who keeps were so rude to others. I haven't seen much too of that member. Maybe she learned that she won't be making friends by being her rude and insulting self.
@anonymili (3138)
28 Feb 08
Hi hun, I can't say as I've really come across many members here that I disliked yet. There are a few long term members that I've read their discussions and and seen some of their responses to others' discussions that I wasn't particular keen on so I just tend to avoid their discussions as they seemed like they were looking for conflict or trying to cause offence or controversy. I haven't got time for that. There's enough nastiness in the real world without having to get involved in that sort of thing online. My time at myLot is precious to me, so I participate in discussions which are relevant and useful to me and discussions of my friends here which I feel I can give some valuable input. Have a lovely day sweetie. x
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
2 Mar 08
My goal everytime I log in here is to participate in discussions that I find relevant. But there are times also that I get curious about the people who are here that I have the tendency to check on their discussions that would just make me more curious as to the workings of their minds. Maybe some people can't help being nasty here because its the only time that they get to have a life. I agree though, we don't need to have nastiness here because there are just too much of it in the real world. Have a lovely day too!
@leeesa (884)
• United States
29 Feb 08
There has only been one myLot member that I didn't care for. He was very sarcastic in his responses to me. He started out as one of my friends, but I just couldn't take his rudeness toward me. I politely removed him from my friends list and stopped responding to his posts. It's much more peaceful now not seeing his posts every day. I like myLot much better now. I don't think there's any need for nastiness.
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
2 Mar 08
We don't need and there is no need for nastiness. period. It kinds of sad that those that we have in our list of friends becomes nasty to us. I guess we couldn't just have everybody liking us too. Best to avoid those. Literally. Have nice day!
• United States
1 Mar 08
some people are just blunt and tell you what they think without mincing words..i am kinda guilty when i answer my phone and the other person is just saying 'Hello" an then I say hello and they say Hello..and it goes on for awhile..as my wife has friends that don't speak English as a first language..sometime i am rude and say what do you want? who do you want to talk too? then they hang up and my wife yells at me for being rude and calls back..but on the internet...you deal with the public and you got to expect just about anything..but after all these years a sharpish answer still hurts me...i am still thin skinned about some things but try not to respond in kind..adding fuel to the fire..is not productive..thanx good post
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
2 Mar 08
I remember one person saying once that what diffentiates us humans is common courtesy. I guess there could be a grain of truth in it. When I let my basier instict overrule my better reason, then I become rude too. We just have to check ourselves from time to time. Thanks for responding!
@manya_pearl (1901)
• Singapore
1 Mar 08
For now, i dont have problems with some mylot members that sometimes used the bad words and and hurt the sender of questions and the reply comments. Anyway, i dont know they are in persons, and i dont care, as long as i am being paid by mylot. Usually the persons who replied with bad words, came with very low points. They also reply and ask something that OUT of quetstions, they are like weirdos. I dont know how they get lost here... heheh. lol. have a nice day!
@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
4 Mar 08
As on of mylotter who responded earlier, they got out because the staff at the institution allowed them access to computers. LOL! Good for you that you just don't mind them. Let's just all go our merry way and don't bother ourselves with something that is negative.