getting kind of lonley. . .
@HollywoodBarbi (618)
United States
February 28, 2008 1:45am CST
after almost 6 months of my "i don't need a man theory", im starting to get alittle lonley. i thought that if i focused on my life and eductation, i would keep myself busy. i even survived valantines day without any sadness [for once in my life]. but now i see couples all over the place. holding hands and smiling at each other.
it makes me think of all the love im missing.
maybe im thinking about things wayyy to much.
did you guys notice the numbr of couples rising?
or am i just crazy?
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6 responses
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
3 Mar 08
I am very sorry that you are lonely. I have been there many times in my life also. I have been with my husband for 15 years now and married for 3 of those. I really haven't noticed the rise in couples though. I think you may be noticing more because you are single and lonely. I don't think you are crazy at all. My sister had been single most of her life and she is in her late 20's. She gets very lonesome too, especially when the holidays roll around.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
3 Mar 08
Yes. It took me a long time to meet the right person. I had many bad relationships before hand and alot of lonely times with no one with me. My poor sister gets so lonely and I feel so sorry for her because I have been there also. I hope you all meet someone ti spend time with soon.
@HollywoodBarbi (618)
• United States
3 Mar 08
wow thats alot of time together, you so lucky! =]
well im glad im not the only won in this world thats lonley. if im not the only one, then i guess im not lonley.
@HollywoodBarbi (618)
• United States
6 Mar 08
well im try to get over it,
and i don't have a new boyfriend. . .
but i started looking, so that most count for something.
@HollywoodBarbi (618)
• United States
28 Feb 08
oh im so happy that there is someone else out there like me! thanks =]
@HollywoodBarbi (618)
• United States
28 Feb 08
hello again! good point, but i tend to want to spend time with the boyfriend then go to class or do homework. haha
@ellie333 (21016)
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4 Mar 08
Hi, some people can feel lonely surronded by people they love and care for, it is a state of mind. It is lovely to have a special partner in your life to share things with and as I am without one at the moment I can relate to how you are feeling, but I am sure if you carry on living your life, studying and going out and having fun when you least expect you will meet someone. I find Sunday the hardest day for seeing couples out together, especially outfits with small children as I am a single parent and at times yearn to be that family unit I am observing, but then I pick myself up and think perhaps they'll go home and have an arguement and I'm just seeing it as a blissfully happy family cos that is what I would like. Ellie :D
@jhl930 (3601)
• United States
28 Feb 08
I am sure that you start getting really lonely after six months...I mean six months without having anyone would make anyone lonely...I have noticed that alot more people are getting together now..and i think that it is really good if you can find someone that makes you happy and you want to be with...but just dont rush things..it will happen!
@HollywoodBarbi (618)
• United States
28 Feb 08
your so right, 6 months would make anyone lonley.
okay good, im glad someone else noticed it! lol
