Would you adopt a child
By avkrasnaya
@avkrasnaya (70)
India
February 28, 2008 5:15am CST
i have came through people who always put forward this idea of adoption, some say they want to do it because they cannot bear the pain, adrs want it to be done as a welfare measure, but i dont agree, adoption is cool if you have some biological problems, adrwise to me its just not worth enought because a child needs a compassion which a real parent can only give
i know people may differ, but i wanted opinions from common public, so please respond
7 responses
@manigandan18 (243)
• India
1 Mar 08
s s s if i get sufficient money i will adopt not only child but the whole orphanage centre
@devilsangel (1817)
• United States
1 Mar 08
Well as a child that has been adopted I think your statment is idiotic. If a couple or a person wants to take in a child and give it a home then I think they are doing a wonderful thing. Just because a person gives birth to a child doesn't mean they are a "real parent" nor does it mean that just because you didn't give birth to that child that you are not. Having a baby doesn't make you a parent. Its how you raise that child and the love you give that child that makes you a parent.
@Dollyswallowjiang (37)
• China
28 Feb 08
I agree with you .I love children very much and i want to bear two if the condition is agree but in my country one couple just allow to bear one child .
In my oppinion ,the children ,are just belong to her/his parents not others .
@loisse21 (214)
• Philippines
28 Feb 08
Adopting is such a huge decision to make. It should be thought over and over. I am also considering adopting 2 children, a girl and a boy though I am capable of bearing child. My bf and I discussed about it once and he agreed. I say I can love them as much as I'll love my own child. But in the near future since I'm still focused on my career and i want to be a hands on mom once I have adopted kids with me.
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
28 Feb 08
My two cousins were infertile and they decided not to adopt. I have had two son successfully and would really like a daughter now. It is too difficult to get accepted to be an adoptive parent in my country. If it was easier I would choose to adopt a little girl that needed a loving family. I could give to same love to an adopted child than those that are mine biologically.
@LauraElrod (418)
• United States
1 Mar 08
If there is no parent then the kids get passed around and around and that is no life for a child. they need love from someone who will love them and take care of them as iff they are there own. we give more love to are pets then a child in need.
@bagumbayan (2705)
• Philippines
28 Feb 08
Why not. In fact I have an adopted daughter and we love her so much. Of course shes not perfect but shes a joy. If others can take care of different domesticated animals like dogs and cats why not a true human beings. If you will adopt because you just pity the baby dont do it, love her as your own.
