why children r becoming so adament now a days?
By valatha1969
@valatha1969 (246)
February 28, 2008 6:12am CST
Todays generation is so adament.Compare to older generation ,parents r accepting all their wantings.Is that mistake parents r doing? Of course they have full freedom to talk what they want to.But they r not obeying elders,n not thinking about others feelings.I am not able to notice where the mistake is going on.Can u?
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4 responses
@avkrasnaya (70)
• India
28 Feb 08
its not about children, even parents have to blamed,in the past where there wer 8-9 kids in one house, parents still used to take care of them and used to raise them in a proper mannner, where as in todays world, parents care just about thier status and treat the kid as some one who should keep thier satus alive rather than aring about his/her needs, is the problem going around on both the sides
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
28 Feb 08
children are becoming too adamant because parents are having more money to spend on them and are buying them expensive things and in the process parents are running after jobs with better pays and ignoring the family. Children are also taking advantage of the situation and demanding more and more things in return for good behaviour or better grade at school and if the parent are failing to give something, they are becoming adamant.
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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28 Feb 08
I think two words sum up what has happened, knowledge and confidence. We have brought up our childeren to believe in themselves to the extent that they now do so at the expense of all else
blessed be
@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
29 Feb 08
It is a combination of changes in society I think. Not any one reason. Parents are too busy to be occupied with their childrens behaviour & wants. Many dont think of the consequences. Some parents just want to keep their kids happy, no matter what. They dont think of the long term effects & how their kids will turn out.
I am all for kids being able to speak honestly, but there is a time & place, and not being demanding & self centred.