Ex Bf..

Hello msanin and welcome to mylot. Well in this situation nowthat you are married I feel like you should be straight forward and let him know that you do not appreicate him calling with his problems because you guys have been done and you are married. I feel like his is being inconsidered especially that first call you recieved from him after you guys break up because it seems to me that he knew that you still had feelings for him and he wanted to throw up that fact that he has moved on in your face. Now that he is calling when he probably knows you are married he is being disrespectful to your husband. Let him know that, becuase you'd never call him with your problems while he's in a relationship. Be firm when you tell him that the phone calls must stop. For the simple factthat you love your husband and his feeling does matter. Your husband come before his relationship problem. If he is still having relationship trouble tell himfind a relationship consultant if need be. With that said msanin NakitaLikely3617 is out!

Well perhaps it's because you're a whole lot younger than me but when I got the first call from him I ould have simply said, "Sucks to be you", then I would have hung up. You're right hubby wouldn't probably like it and REALLY could you blame him? Just my opinion.

I think you are justified in it. it is not proper or him to call you.And above all when he has broken up from you, why he is making these stories of another break up and all. Just ignore his calls.

I had a similar situation. My wife told me that her almost BF in the past suddenly texted her and was somehow telling her that she is not happy or his marriage is on the rocks and I don't know what his purpose are for texting her again. I think he is fishing for something if my wife is unhappy too with me. Unfortunately my wife told him that she is happily married and the guy stopped already. I guess you have to tell her that too. That you are uncomfortable with him calling you as you are already married. If he persist then there must be something he wants to get from you or maybe fishing something out from you.

You should just tell him waht you told us ;) That you dont feel comfortable talking to him about his new girl friends and that you dont apprietiate it. Suggest another one of his friends that he could call to get advice from :)

If you really do not like it, be straight forward and tell him directly. Do not be kind hearted which is necessary. That is exactly what i did to my ex~ Be joyful, lady.

He thinks you're still friends. Obviously you're not comfortable being friends with him so you should just tell him straight not to call you again. He should understand and respect the fact that you're already married.

Your right it really isn't appropriate and you should put a stop to it. I'd tell him to stop calling and if he keeps on then I'd change my phone number. **AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~

I think you should be upfront with how you feel about this. Like what the others said, you should explain to him that since you are no longer involved in his life, you no longer want to have anything to do with matters that involve him. If he keeps on calling you, you should block him from calling you if that is possible or you may want to change your number for a while so that he will not be able to bother you anymore.

It is a bit of an awkward situation for you, especially with you being married. I know for a fact my husband would be really annoyed and would probably bash him if he found out!! I think the next time he phones you should just be polite and nicely tell him that you dont think he should call again or change your number so that he cannot phone.

I think if you don't want him to call you,tell him that. If you don't care that,it's a normal thing that may be he just take you as a "best good friend". When the love has past,things lived sometimes will be more ture than ever before!