child support--anyone else having problems like this???

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I am so mad right now and I figured this was a good outlet if any. My son's father, who has not been a part of his life since conception, angers me so. He is half of the most amazing thing ever created and he could care less. I have had an open child support case with him since my son was 4 months old. My son is now 22-months. The problem is that his father lives in a different state then we do and he was conceived overseas. I initially filed in April 05, he had to confirm some information in May 05 and then he disappeared for a year. Mind you, he is in the military and there were some things going on over where he is but still, how did he just disappear? So then I hear nothing from the child support office for almost a year and it's only to tell me we have to file an interstate case. That was March 06. Two weeks ago, I called to check up on them, as I have every other week since I filed this case and what do they tell me?! They closed the interstate office and are reassigning my case. On top of that, they don't have it in their system that the case was filed with the interstate office. I was sitting there with a copy of it in front of me. AH!!! I just got word on Friday that they were reconfirming the information I had on his father so they could file a paternity order. Blah blah blah, I haven't communicated with his father much since he reappeared after being gone for a year. I emailed him with updates on the case and what does he say?"All this seems like a dream." AH AGAIN!!! I'm done venting but I was wondering does anyone else have problems with their case or their baby's father??? I mostly just want to vent about baby's fathers. I guess the good news is that he was recently promoted so when this is over, I'll be getting more than I would have two years ago. Yeah!