help me out

@asmack (24)
India
February 29, 2008 6:40am CST
ok! it goes like this.....i really really love this gal n she loved me too...but now we r at a long distance relationship.. so she now tells me that she is aattracted with someone else....both r aware of themselves but arent in a realtion ship ...so how am i supposed to handle this situation??? falling in for her really bad or letting her go.... u must consider that i love her n she has a great faith in me/// wat am i supposed to do???? plz help me out
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@sexyraj (18)
• India
29 Feb 08
budy same thing happen to me bt u r lucky that she told u that she is going with some 1 else. my ex-girlfriend said only 'SORRY' nd nthing else. ur love is true nd girls will never care for it. They jst want make themselves comfortable nd nthing else. So bro jst let her go nd wait .... after smtime either u'll find some other love or she will come back. best of Luck nd ya if she comes dooo tell me. I will feel happy.
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
29 Feb 08
That's a very tough one. She admits that she is getting attracted to someone else while you are away from her. You love her and she has that much faith in you to tell you how it is happening at her side. If you really love her, as well as have faith in her, you let her decide what she think is best for the both of you. Perhaps you do consider her decision reasonable since she is the one who is in the bind, being torn out of the loneliness that she is experiencing due to your absence and seeking comfort from someone who is just closeby.. Though it is cliche, if you love her, you could let her go and see if she loves you the same way that she'd come back to you. If she doesn't then accept it that it wasn't meant to be. You do want the best for her, right?
• Ireland
29 Feb 08
Man i think the worst possible thing happened..Any lad would fear that when a girl leaves you she's find some one else! Its a tricky one and it muct be on your mind all the time..with the paranoia that comes with it. If your really mad for her do your best to make it work. Is she gone for ever to this long distant place or is it just a short time thing? I would say tell her..try your best to make it work! Believe in yourself...get her! or kill the other dude..But don't start worrying about it too much. You can turn insane that way! If there's nothing u can do than do something to free your mind..Go out with your friends..Friends are great in times like this..they cheer you up and they wont keep reminding you of the issue..In a way they are an indirect attention diverter...wb if u have any questions or pm me!! I like helping people!