high maintenance(the truth)

Jamaica
February 29, 2008 11:51am CST
people let me explain it out for you.i am an indepenent woman who is going after my goal of becoming an hotel manager.most of the things that i have i buy them. i have been working from i left high school.what i am saying is that i am the type of woman who treats my man like a king, therefore i expect the same in return.it has nothing to do with just buying things,because the little things count.in life people end up with a certain type of life because of the choices they make.especially when comes onto a partner,that can really affect your life. i want to know that my man can hold his own as well as i can hold my own. i believe most women do not believe that they too can be taken care of. they always are the ones taking care of their men, i say most, not all. life is short and i want the best of it. so if i want a man who can take care of me as well as i can take care of him that is my choice, no judgements needed.i saw my aunt as i was growing up get with men who could help make her life better and now she has a wonderful home, good kids, who get good education and a husband who is very ambitious and takes care of them. my life right now is great because i know my worth and i know i am worth being taken care of no matter if i am independent or not.i take care of my man in every way:i feed him,wash his clothes, buy him things and treat him like the king he is.what do you say now.
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RobinJ
@RobinJ (2501)
• Canada
29 Feb 08
how very refreshing to hear some one gives as good as she gets. I have found that most women are looking for some one to rescue them from the present life they lead. I admit I was this way for many years and it never worked out because I always got upset when they didn't do it the way I wanted. Today I am in a relationship with a man who is very warm, caring and kind, I am in return warm caring and kind, He told me the other day that I make him feel like a man. And that was something because he makes me feel like I am a woman. I thought I knew what it was like but a life of servitude is not it and I believed as a woman I had to do all the work to make a man happy. He said he is happiest when he is helping me. again it has nothing to do with money, but respect and admiration.