Working hard

Yes I agree very much. You have to make good decissions with your money. These days more then ever I think. It sometimes takes work and alot of understanding to do that. I do not cut everything back, but there is alot of things we do so different.

thats right and i have same opinion as like you omar0913. getting married it means that we should prepare about new member of family which are children. thats why we should work hard in order to fulfill the needs of children as like food, clothing, games and the important thing its about education for them. nowadays, education getting higher cot than before so couple who married should prepare it very well. however, i like to work hard and i am not type person who just spending day without doing something useful

Once you have kids your whole world changes everything you have done before is meaningless. I never thought it would be so much work. I was a single parent after my first marriage broke up and I worked doubley hard to make sure my children had a home and where fed. I had less time with my children. I wanted to give up so many times but I just couldn't. I had to take care of two beautiful children. I really love hearing from people that taking care of children is easy, lol. That parents that stay home with children get to watch soap operas all day. I don't know what fantasy world they are living in but when you have children around you don't get alot of relaxation. I find I am busier when I am at home then when I am at work. Going to work is like a vacation.

Everything i do is for my son, and no having children and a family isn't a game. We are not the sims... we are real and whatever we do will impact on the next generation.