can gurls and guys be just friends??
By jsharriz
@jsharriz (436)
Ukraine
13 responses
@Campino (57)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
1 Mar 08
Yes it is possible, but hard to find. But remember you can't have a lot of friends in a that way. I have a female friend 9 years and she is like a sister for me, but when I thought that I can have more female friends that was not possible. They were friends to me but for a short time. They changed their feelings in other way (if you understand what I want to tell you), like girlfriends.
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@steffyhoney (706)
• United States
1 Mar 08
I think it is possible. I have a lot of guy friends. Of course almost all of them have had or do have a crush on me. But I dont think that interfers with anything. I have been friends with most of them since middle and high school.
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@queenofarms (1659)
• United States
2 Mar 08
I think they can..I have guy friends and nothing more than friends.
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@GimmyKissies (32)
• United States
2 Mar 08
Well... My best friend is a guy. Does it count if they're not straight?
Lol, someone once referred to him as my boyfriend. I corrected them by saying "Girlfriend" the look on their face was awesome.
N I do have a couple of friends that are guys, no crushes or the like.
But, we're not so close. Just, lil conversations N laughs here N there.
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@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
3 Mar 08
i think it is possible for a guy and a girl to be just friends.. but they must not be "super close" cause i believe that though they are "just" friends, one or the other might actually fall for his/her "friend. and if they get really close, you see... friendship is the most wonderful relationship that can be of great help to any romantic love. right?
@superjockh (237)
• United States
3 Mar 08
Absolutely! I currently have close friends who happen to be females. We have been friends ever since were little. We went to kindergarten together. It is very possible. Sometimes, when people see a guy and a girl together, there is an assumption that both of them are at least "going out" or "dating". Because I think that is the society we live in. We live in a society where if you see a girl and a guy doing almost everything together or talking a lot, many people assume that they have some kind of relationship going on, in which most cases they are, but some of those cases can just happen to be friendship.
-Feel Free to Disagree!
@HollywoodBarbi (618)
• United States
1 Mar 08
i don't think is possable.
i always end up falling for my guy friends.
people want to think its they can be, but nope.
girls and boys can never be just friends.
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@hansel_005 (58)
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1 Mar 08
i too think it is possible as long as the relation between them remains as friends...without any crush on each other...