can gurls and guys be just friends??

@jsharriz (436)
Ukraine
March 1, 2008 3:34pm CST
can a guy and a girl just be close friends?? is that possible..?? wat do you people think???
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@Campino (57)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
1 Mar 08
Yes it is possible, but hard to find. But remember you can't have a lot of friends in a that way. I have a female friend 9 years and she is like a sister for me, but when I thought that I can have more female friends that was not possible. They were friends to me but for a short time. They changed their feelings in other way (if you understand what I want to tell you), like girlfriends.
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@jsharriz (436)
• Ukraine
1 Mar 08
happens quite often.. thanks for the response.
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@rovian (1924)
• United States
1 Mar 08
Of course it is possible. Not everyone only talks and become friends with the opposite gender just because they have a crush on them.
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@jsharriz (436)
• Ukraine
1 Mar 08
thanks for the response.. have a gud day ahead.
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@shorty08322 (1270)
• United States
2 Mar 08
yea they can some of them you can
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• United States
1 Mar 08
I think it is possible. I have a lot of guy friends. Of course almost all of them have had or do have a crush on me. But I dont think that interfers with anything. I have been friends with most of them since middle and high school.
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@jsharriz (436)
• Ukraine
1 Mar 08
hmm..even though friends , that crush factor does come in at sme point of time... nyways thanks for the response.
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@queenofarms (1659)
• United States
2 Mar 08
I think they can..I have guy friends and nothing more than friends.
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• United States
2 Mar 08
Well... My best friend is a guy. Does it count if they're not straight? Lol, someone once referred to him as my boyfriend. I corrected them by saying "Girlfriend" the look on their face was awesome. N I do have a couple of friends that are guys, no crushes or the like. But, we're not so close. Just, lil conversations N laughs here N there.
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
3 Mar 08
i think it is possible for a guy and a girl to be just friends.. but they must not be "super close" cause i believe that though they are "just" friends, one or the other might actually fall for his/her "friend. and if they get really close, you see... friendship is the most wonderful relationship that can be of great help to any romantic love. right?
• India
3 Mar 08
hehehe no no i cant accept it
• United States
3 Mar 08
Absolutely! I currently have close friends who happen to be females. We have been friends ever since were little. We went to kindergarten together. It is very possible. Sometimes, when people see a guy and a girl together, there is an assumption that both of them are at least "going out" or "dating". Because I think that is the society we live in. We live in a society where if you see a girl and a guy doing almost everything together or talking a lot, many people assume that they have some kind of relationship going on, in which most cases they are, but some of those cases can just happen to be friendship. -Feel Free to Disagree!
• United States
1 Mar 08
i don't think is possable. i always end up falling for my guy friends. people want to think its they can be, but nope. girls and boys can never be just friends.
@yannycui (376)
• China
2 Mar 08
It is possible. I have close male friends and some of my male friends have close female ones. We talk with each other but we don't love each other. They give me some good advice and help me with some stuff. Girls and boys can be good friends.
@ditsi85 (30)
• Philippines
1 Mar 08
yup they can be..i have guy frend today we are close..he act like brother to me because he will advice me, we play each other..
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1 Mar 08
i too think it is possible as long as the relation between them remains as friends...without any crush on each other...
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