Why do you think a lot of successful African American men prefer fair women?

they're all gay!!! so i stopped caring. like ciara's song be like a boy and do them how they do you. go for the light skin guys. tell the dark skin guys how much you don't dig them, and that they're too black. i SURE WILL DO THAT. if they can do it to me, then i can do it to them. and i agree with the other person above. blacks don't like being black. that is why blacks value light skin, curly hair, and call each other n-word. the physical description i described doesn't even sound like your average black person. your average black person is brown skinned, tightly curled or wavy hair. it is a shame. i try to educate ppl about the hate, and they act as if i'm offending them by telling them the facts. they say "you think you're so smart and better than us." heck i just don't want anyone calling me their ngga

I have to agree would like to see some of them that are of the darker skin to tell us why some of the perfer light to darker skin. Really dont make a diffrence if they have love for each other who cares the color skin, or anything else...

well they preffer a fair partner,so as to have fair children...face it they dont like black.