Distant Love

I guess you could say I was in love with someone online. He was 24 and I was like 21. He lived in cali at the time but moved back on the east coast not to far from me. We talked for a good 2 years and had plans to meet one day and possibly be together for good. So one day we decided to meet. We did and then when he went home he wrote and said that someone else wants to be with him and hes gonna be with her. I was mad!! lol. Then he just stopped talking to me completely. Thats when I realized that interent relationships dont really work. But since then he has written me a few times but ill never forgive him for that.

I don't think I can fall in love with someone online. It is so intangible. I don't know exactly him personality just through talking. It is not a real worlk on the internet. Find some true love in real world.

It is funny to think of the opportunities we have to make the world smaller and to fall for people on different continents. But the oddity is the flip of that how can a solid relationship be made by such a distance? Will one travel to where the other is? Does anyone have a success story?

Distant love??? Not my type of love definitely. Online??? Hm.. I met someone special, but we are on beginning right now. Citizen of different country, yes love has no limits. My friend moved to another country and she is engaget, so it is possible.

i dont think its possible. how do you know someone's intention is true when you're online? i dont think its possible to know that since the most effective tool for me to know that is through body language (aka real life situation). and the internet can not provide that.

well as u know i am saving to be with MissOrlz.. we met on friendship and networking site.. with this particular site u can secretly admire people and u have to pick who they r out of a bunch of others.. well MissOrlz secretly admired me and i picked her first shot, this was about november last year, and we would send each other gifts with little messeges on this site but we were never able to catch each other online at the same time till about the start of feburary this year.. we exchanged email address and stared chatting.. at this time i was at the end of a trouble filled 5 yr relationship which i and my ex partner ended mutually.. in the past month MissOrlz and i have been chatting all the time the only time we dont is when we r sleeping.. i have changed my sleeping patten so i can talk to her because of the time difference. it was a few days after my split with my ex that MissOrlz and i decided to get together. it was instant love.. after about a week of talking to her i decided i wanted to go to Ireland to be with her and she felt the same way.. i call her every few days and we chat for about and hour or more on the phone each time.. its not cheap but she is worth every minute.. when i started talking to her i was on the verge of depression but she has pulled my out of it.. and she even made me go and find out if i was diabetic, i thought i may have been but was too scared of needles to go get the test.. and as it turned out i am diabetic as is she.. i thank her so much for making me get it done.. Im just so glad i met her and i am more in love with her then i have ever been with anyone else.. we have had a few problems along the way so far.. i have young children to preiouvs partners and my sister and a few other members of my family have caused problems for us because they r worried about my kids. but as i told them, if i had any worries about them i wouldnt be going and i think its best that i do go when they r young because they dont really understand and it wont effect them as much as it would if they were older.. I love my kids but i will only be gone for a year and i will be getting an open ticket so if anything happens when im gone i can get straight back without hassle.. when i do come back to australia MissOrlz will be coming back with me and will be trying to get citisenship here.. i offered to move to her but she wont have it lol.. well thats our story so far.. MissOrlz will probably fill in whatever i have left out

My husband and I met online. We have now been together four years and married for three of those years.We met at an adult chat site in the Dungeon.We talked every day for about two months then he moved from Pennsylvania to Michigan to be with me.

yes i have been, we talked for about a year, he lives in illinois, me nc, but after a while we lost contact, i cant keep up with him, and he can't keep up with me. we did fall in love, and talked everyday. long distance relationships are not meant to get attached, cuz u worry what their doing, and you get jealous, only to see you cant because your away from each other, so it can work for a while, only till you want to be with them.

it is hard but not impossible.. i remember i was talking to this guy online, he had a gf and i had a bf, he lives in the city where i used to live long time ago like my home city but we never met before; his gf was actually my schoolmate when i went to school there.. so i kinda knew from references and staff and i knew he liked girls a lot and he was being unfaithful to his gf a lot.. so i wasnt into this a lot but we start talking a lot and i really liked him and he seemed to like me. we called each other and we used to see each other using web cam; it was fun because it wasnt serious.. we talked for around 1 year then we stopped talking because he was now going out with this girl and apparently he was falling in love with her so i decided to stop talking to him.. 3 months later my family and i could travel to Colombia so i went to my home city and stayed there 3 weeks but i didnt see him.. i came back and he ask why i didnt tell him i was there.. well we start talking again but then i met my husband so everything stop there.. i went there again for 1 month this past January, i saw him for my first time and it was kinda weird.. after 3 years talking online but it was fun because we realized that we could have a nice friendship..

I met my current boyfriend online. We are both 26. He lived in Kansas and I lived in california. We communicated over the phone and email. He came out here a couple of times and we had our first date. He had to move back to Kansas to finish school. After that, he moved back to california which is his home. We fell in love after a couple of months of being together. I have been with him for 4 years. I was a bit skeptical at first when we met online. But somehow it worked. I dont know about out of the country online dating. Regardless of what you prefer when it comes to online dating, be careful. Meet in a public place so if something goes wrong, you can bail from that situation fast with no troubles.

i don't believe in it.i think there is only few success story

I fell in love with someone online a year ago. He was 23 and I was 19. We knew each other for almost a year and a couple of my friends know him. We talked to each other online and on the telephone each day. And we also sent text messages to each other. Things were quite good at first. But later he left me without letting me know why. My friends try to slove it but it did not help. We live in the same country but in different provinces which is quite far from each other. We did not meet outside internet. Well, that's really a long story to talk about~~ Maybe I won't be that brave to meet some online friends in another coutry. I prefer someone I can reach.

i have a dream all the time!that is i will meet a girl online !then fall love wite her,and love her all my life! it is my dream ! i hope it will come ture in the future! i can meet her? i don't know!

Distant online love? Hmmmm. Firstly, I hate to sound like the party pooper but I have to say that it probably isn't love. Its just a temporary infatuation. I have had plenty of crushes on people I have met online and usually it just fades away with time. I have also met some of them in real life but again its just been temporary feelings that fade away. Maybe Im just the wrong person to answer this :p

My husband and I met on line a little more than three years ago. In September of '07 we got married in Sedona Arizona. I'm Canadian from Guelph Ontario, and he's American living in Sedona Arizona. We are now going back and forth between the two places, but we're apart sometimes, depending on what's going on with our jobs etc. at the time. It's hard, but we're in love, so we do it.

Hi, Love has no barriers if it is sincere and trustworthy and another one is to opt and find out the appropriate lover. The saddest and bitter part is when being sincere in love getting departed. Hence I feel in love, distance or native bitterness and sadness can be in native also. But a worthy love may come from anywhere even a north pole may get south pole lover and also they may live happily forever. Just pray to God to give a worthy lover that is one of greatest gift of God.

Distant for me?A little hard maybe~~~ But fall in love with someone online can also a kind of life.Because in a virtual world,some virtual feelings may exist.Just remember do not get over indulged in it...