Wedding, SHould it be Big or Just Small Party?

It should be whatever you want it to be. Don't let people try to pressure you to put certain family members or friends in your wedding party, it will just stress you out. I recommend you read this book called Wedding Hell by Natalie Victors. It's really funny and you can see how she dealt with some of her situations. It's based on a true story. You can download it at lulu.com. Good luck!

I think it's a personal choice. I personally don't like big fancy weddings other than to look at the pics of them. I perfer a small ceremony with just family. At the same time it should also go hand in hand with what you can afford. I can't see someone who has 4 kids and on Welfare having a $20,000 wedding...it would be wasteful. [b]**AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~ [/b]

wedding is the biggest occasion in someone's life. its really holly ceremonial which everyone ever dreamed about. in my opinion, just do wedding with your own ability. the ability in here its about the financial ability. i know everyone want a wedding become once in their life times but it should not held on a big party while they actually can't afford the cost to do that. its not a good choice while having a really big wedding party but in the same condition, you lend such money from your relatives to do so. thats really ridiculous in my opinion. my own wedding just simple party which attended with knowing people and relative but its already had depth meaning in our wedding ceremonial. we are happy that we do our wedding with our own money without lending to anyone :)

I would prefer small party, only close friends and relative. Coz i think it will be more make sense to share your happiness with your closest friend and family.