is it too late
By amee72
@amee72 (11)
8 responses
@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
4 Jan 09
This discussion is serval months old and I doubt that you are even still active here - getting that from your number of posts - but even if you don't read this others will.
The fact that you mentioned "time running out", is it? Time running out for what? I think a person has to be a complete person first before they form any lasting relationship.
Also, I might add that a relationship is about compromise and creating a balance between too people. You don't just meet someone and everything falls into place, you work at it and groom it so the relationship works for both of you.
Meeting a few "almost Mr Rights", how is that? how can a person "almost" be perfect for you? Maybe your expectations are too high and you need to be realistic on how a relationship works.
To "give up and make the best of what I can find". I'm sorry, but I can't take that statement seriously. If the best of what you can find isn't up to your standards, then just how high are they?
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
2 Mar 08
It is never too late, you should never "just settle" and marriage is not imperative to a happy life. Being unmarried is not the end of the world. Just enjoy your life for what it is. Don't have the "grass is greener" mentality. And above all, stop looking. The harder you look, the less likely you are to find it. Love is one of those things you just have to let happen wherever, whenever and whoever it might happen.
@angelkitten (38)
• United States
2 Mar 08
You shouldn't "give up" just cause of your age! My mother had a bowling friend that was never married - i think she was close to 50. She went on vacation to New Orleans a couple of years back and met her Mr Right at mardis gras! They got married and she lived happily ever after.
Don't just settle cause you feel you have to - it's your life, find someone that's worth living it up!
@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
2 Mar 08
I don't think there ever is an age limit for marriage. If you're probably too old to have kids, don't worry because there are even some couples who married early but still didn't have kids. Mr. Right will come at the right time. I just have one question for you though, "Is your criteria of a Mr. Right really a strict one?" You probably have met Mr. Right already but you just had a preconceived idea of what a Mr. Right should be so you ended up missing to see Mr. Right just in front of you. This is just one thing I want to remind you about because there never is a perfect guy. Mr. Right will only be a person who is perfectly for you, who fits just right with you -- but not necessarily a perfect person. Good Luck!