How do you pick and chose who to be firends with !!!

1. I have only asked about 5 people to be my friend but it has been after seeing them repeatedly in discussions and making note of the way they would comment and the things they would write. If I found myself searching them out through over comments they had left then I broke down and made the request. 2. I used to make sure they had commented my discussions before I would accept their request but now I just accept people who have an unique user name or I like their avatar then I look for them in my discussions and if I don't see them I toss them off my list. 3. I don't PM people right after I first add them unless I have a question about something or I just want to tell them how happy I am we are now friends. 4. I have over 60 friends and I really think that is too many. I have notify on for about 20 of them and they keep me plenty supplied with new discussions. I don't need hundreds of friends. It allows me to pay more attention to the ones I appreciate and enjoy. 5. I answered this in #1 6. I also answered in #1.

Non of your 7 points can cover my view. I rather give people a chance to be friends.It is virtual friendship and partnership in making this forum a better place. If someone post rude comments, than I can delete them from my friends list. Also, if someone is not active for a long tome on Mylot, than I can delete them. Some people my not respond to my discussions probably because my discussion is not fitting in their interest. It is OK for me. At least they can stop by once a while....

I look at the person's profile and decide whether I want to be a friend to that person.

Hello bellaofchaos!:-) I hope to answer your questions in order!:-) 1. All users on mylot are my friends, in a way, but I have never picked a friend myself to be on someone’s friend’s list i.e. I have never requested a friendship. It really has nothing to do, whatsoever, with my ego or anything of that sort. Instead, I feel that if I request someone to be friend with me, I may make them work to look for what I am, what I do and such, that they may think it their ‘duty’ or ‘pain’ to accept me for courtesy’s sake. I never wanted a relationship in my life that someone didn’t really want. So, as I can not be sure whether or not other person wants to be my friend, I don’t put them to test by asking their friendship. That also explains why I accept any and every invitation to befriend with me without delays and questions asked i.e. as I have stated that all users are my friends, I just officially make it happen by accepting EVERY invitation. 2. No, I do have any rule that someone who is my friend answer ANY of my discussion. There are many people on my friend’s list who never answered my discussion but I don’t mind. There are those who seldom answer, still they are my friends. 3. Yes, after accepting an invitation, if I don’t know the user personally and have not had an earlier interaction of any sort, I ask them for their reason to be my friend. Whatever their reason is, I accept it without further questions asked and I have never deleted if I apparently didn’t like something they said as their reason because you never know what potential greatness they might have in themselves, I like to give it a chance. 4. I have said that I accept everyone, without any distinction, but I never did it for numbers or any reason other than just to be friend. I do look for friends’ discussions on priority but I do go to other categories frequently. 5. I have described that I never ask to be on people’s friends’ lists and I have stated my reasons but I do visit users’ profiles, both my friends’ and other users but mostly my friends’, initially to know them better and then to see if they have newer discussions, if I wasn’t in contact for some time. I also visit my old friends’ profiles to see if they have return, many of whom haven’t returned for around as much time I am here. 6. I don’t! 7. Again, I don’t wait for anyone! But, in another sense, everyone :-) I hope I have answered all the questions!:-) That was interesting, indeed! And, if any of my reasons sound weird then you must know that I am known to be weird!:-)

I go with 3 I usually accept all of them until I start getting spammed through mylot then off they go back into the cyber abyss and off of my list...Have a great one hun!

1.I pick a mylot friends if I like and study from his or her ideas. 2.I don't mind whether he or she answer my discuss or not. 3.I never delete friends if I chose one . I believe my ability to choose friends. 4.Answer is the same as 1. 5.Yes, before I decide to make friends with them, I check their profile to find if we have anything in common.

They pick and choose me. I don't have any rules to make any friends here. Jut make friend when I feel it and when I need it. Why do we have to make ourselves so complicated? When you want it just do it. Why need this rules and other rules?

i add any one that send me friends request. i even do not check their profile or so. till now It seems there is no harm in that.sometimes i think i should have been more judgemental before adding.

1. If i see they have responded to a lot of mine or another friends discussions then i usually request to be their friend. 2. Yea if someone hasnt' posted a single post then i will deny them, cause if they haven't posted since adding me, they probably wont post anything at all, and i'll just end up deleting them later on anyways. 3. I dont usually PM anyone unless i wanna ask them something that i dont wanna put in my response! 4. No i dont accept just anyone. I look at their profile and discussions they've started and dicsusions they've responded to if they only have a few. If they are a senior member of mylot then i'm pretty confident that they are ok to add as a friend without looking. 5. Up above. 6. I request friends!! 7. I dont always wait, some people never request people, but i like to choose people with similar interests to be friends with, and the people that request ME dont always have similar interests, they just tend to add me cause i have more posts then they do lol. Good questions bella ;) *hugs*

I accept all the friend in mylot. The reason is very easy, I want make friends. I like use English with foreign. I like know their daily life. All my friends was chinses and talk with them in English is unfortable.

i decided to pick a mylot friends just because i want to have more friends here, and i really appreciated any members who wanna be my friends, it better to have more, so you can send comments and message to them more than you're not friends. I dont have any rules that they should answer or not my discussion, i want people answer my discussion because they are really want to answer it... i visited many member's profile. I have many request friends and i already added them in friend list.... i also add many members, i just wanna know more people in this website, since we're share our ideas and experiences, and i can know and learn from them.....

I don't have any criteria set in choosing friends. Characters you meet on the web are shrouded with mystery so, my way of choosing my face to face friends is a whole lot different. Here at mylot, anyone who requests me as a friend can expect a positive response from me. Sometimes, I'm the one inviting them as long as I found some of their answers in the posts I view to be sensible and considerate of others' welfare. I choose them because we will definitely get along. I keep myself from rude and selfish guys and same, thing, you will have a clue with the way they answer questions or roll out their statements.

I add most anyone that asks, but I look at the profile first (unless it's someone I've seen posting already and know a bit about them). If the profile doesn't have anything that stands out as being offensive to me, then I add without question. I started off sending friend requests to those I saw posting in common interests, but I've had more people send a request to me lately, so I just approve those and don't actively search out others. I will add one on occasion, though.

i adds every body who wants to be my friend but in making someone friend by sending request by me i first look at his oo hers interest and discussions so i can respond to his stuff and also get respond from them so i can make the most worth of my time and other's time.I do not like to make someone wait to just for adding him its unfair to him.I think that someone will also do that to you if u do regularly this kind of things

The first thing I do when I get a request to be someone's friend is go and look at their profile. If they don't have any discussions that peak my interest than I don't accept them as friend. Only because I like to respond to friends discussions and if there is no discussion of theirs that I have interest in that means we have different interest and I probably wouldn't respond to their discussions. I don't accept everyone but I do take the time to see if we have similar interest. It doesn't have to be completely same as me but at least somewhat. I generally don't request friends. I have a whole lot without requesting them.

i accept all of them. i dont the problem in accepting everyone. i mean i never use pm's or anything anyway...