Declawing my cat
By myworkid1987
@myworkid1987 (755)
United States
March 2, 2008 8:42pm CST
Ok I got a problem. My cat has scratched my daughter for the second time. I was thinking about getting his front paws declawed till I did some research to see what the price range was and let me tell you that wasnt pretty. lol expensive. Then I read some things about people against it and seen pics and then was talking to my friend about how cats get mean after they get declawed. she knew a cat that become mean and I know a cat that became mean!!! I dont need a mean cat. I just want him to stop clawing my daughter!!! Should I send him to the farm or would it be worth getting him declawed. If I sent him to my parents farm I would probably end up replacing him with anouther kitten cuz I would just feel empty without a cat here. I would get a dog but Im not allowed to have a dog...What do you think I should do?
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13 responses
@whywiki (6066)
• Canada
3 Mar 08
A cat should never be declawed. How would you like it if someone decided to remove all your fingernails and toenails because you accidentally scratched someone. I think if the cat is lucky enough to get to the farm and out of harms way you shouldn't get any animal. To even think of declawing the little creature makes me think you are not mature enough to have a pet.
@myworkid1987 (755)
• United States
3 Mar 08
so everyone else in this world that declaws their animal isnt mature no matter how old they are?
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@nova1945 (1612)
• United States
3 Mar 08
I would never have a cat declawed. First of all since you did som research I assume you know how they do that. Ewww. And second, this is a cat's primary defense. If a delcawed accidentally gets outside it has no defense against predators. They can't evem climb a tree to escape. I believe your best option is to have it's nails clipped regularly or even have those soft nail covers put on.
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@myworkid1987 (755)
• United States
3 Mar 08
ive heard of the soft nail covers. are they cheaper than getting a cat declawed? And does it have to be redone on a regular basis?
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@nova1945 (1612)
• United States
3 Mar 08
The soft claws are much cheaper...about the same as having your nails done (acrylics) and they do have to be redone from time to time. It also depends on the cat. Some will actually gnaw them off. But it works very well on others. It is certainly an alternative worth a try as opposed to amputating their toes at the 1st joint.
@magikrose (5429)
• United States
3 Mar 08
What ever you do please dont declaw the kitty. Do your reaserch as to what they exactily do. The claw is not just a nail for them it is the final joint inthere paw and to havethem declawed you are removing that last joint and can be extremily painfull. Plus IF you cat ever got outside after being declawed you haveremoved your cats only defense. He/she will not be able to climb a tree to get away from danger. Your best bet is to invest in animal safety clippers and clip your cats nails once every 3-4 weeks to keep them short and dull.
I have 3 beautifull fur babies and when I play with them or when any of my kids play with them they get scratched. There really is nothing you can do about that except get rid of the cat.
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@Ldyjarhead (10233)
• United States
3 Mar 08
I'm not going to argue about whether declawing is good or not. I used to do it but probably wouldn't any longer based on some things I've read as well.
Having said that, I don't believe for a minute that declawing takes away their only means of defense.
I had a kitten declawed and kept him inside until he started driving us crazy to go out, so we let him out sometimes.
Within days he was bringing us 'presents'. Now I can understand him being able to pounce on a mouse or mole and kill him with his weight alone (although he wasn't very big), but he started bringing us baby rabitts, and then a full grown rabbit.
He could get up a tree just fine too.
I'd say he got along just fine without the front claws to defend himself.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
3 Mar 08
I think you should first teach your daughter how to treat animals, it is possible she is trying to hold him when he does not want to be held, or grabbing at him and he might be afraid of her,
and then I would also spray him with water when he scratches for him to know that this is not an acceptable behaviour,
and I would get his claws trimmed.
declawing might cause him to start bitting.
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@Sissygrl (10912)
• Canada
3 Mar 08
I agree with your first respondee, that if you get another kitten, it is very possible that the new one will start scratching too depending on how your babes treats the cats. Some kids think that kitty is just another toy and they dont understand till they are older. Maybe you should send him to the farm and get a diferent kind of pet.. something smaller, or a fishy. lol.
What about keeping him locked out of the room that you have your daughter in when she's just in the one room with you guys ? Kitty could have roamage of the rest of the house could he not ?
@myworkid1987 (755)
• United States
3 Mar 08
well we could lock him in the basement but we tried letting him go in the basement when he wanted to and then I found pee stains on the piles of clothes and thats where i do my laundry so thats out of the question. I could put him in emmas room or our bedroom but then he wouldnt have half the house to roam around. we dont have doors on our stairway so i cant really let him roam around upstairs without him wanting to come downstairs. I could leave him outside all the time and maybe he would eventually stop begging and meowing at the window to come in but then in the spring time when i left food out I would be feeding all those mexicans cats!!!
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@myworkid1987 (755)
• United States
3 Mar 08
the only other pet that would fix the emptyness would be a dog...lol and i cant hide a dog like i can hide a cat. lol
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@Cocoa33 (921)
• United States
3 Mar 08
hi. you say u dont need a mean cat. there are cats that are nice. if i were you. i would send it to the farm. you wont have to worry about the cat scratching your daughter. you can always get another cat. it would be a solution to your problem.
u know everyone has their opinion about declawing. i think sometimes you have to do what you feel is best for you.
have a good day
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@myworkid1987 (755)
• United States
3 Mar 08
ty for the normal response. I feel like people are thinking that this is WHAT IM GONNA DO! which isnt what i said.
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@kids91911 (4363)
• United States
8 Mar 08
I have three cats none of them are declawed. I have trained them not to use them when mad. Everytime they have gotten them out I have tapped them on the paw and said no. I has worked for us with every cat that has come to our house.
@Modestah (11179)
• United States
4 Mar 08
I've had cats that were declawed and never knew them to be mean. I currently have two cats that have their claws - since they go outside a lot I am keeping them intact - we live in a wooded area and they need to be able to make a quick escape up a tree now and again, I am sure.
There is a lot of controversy regarding declawing a cat - I am not sure if it is somewhat exaggerated or not... but people can be very passionate in their views against the practice.
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@coolseeds (3919)
• United States
3 Mar 08
I have always had cats. None have been declawed.
You might be better off getting a new cat. I see a common problem with cat owners. They teach the cat to attack their hand when it is a kitten. Well the cat gets big.
Don't teach the cat to attack your hand. Teach it to play with toys. I am not saying this is why your cat scratches. But it is why most cats do it.
Yes most people play with a kitten with their hand but I think it teaches the cat that it is ok to attack people.
My cats don't scratch. Even if they swat at you.
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@oscarbartoni (2581)
• United States
3 Mar 08
I don't think that you are a responsible pet owner. You should rethink about having any animal as apet owner until you learn to be able to treat your animals responsible.It woud be best if you could find this cat a good home and maybe wit until your daughter gets old enough to be able to act around a pet. Cats and dogs are not throw away toys that you can just go out and buy another one because the first one did not work out. If you need a pet then get a large aquarium and some tropical fish. They will help you to relax by watching them and they will not stratch your daughter.
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@xkisslovex (3)
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4 Mar 08
Fish are Food, Not Pets.
I think this girl is a responsible pet Owner.
Maybe you should read about China and Cats.
You might re-think your opinion.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
3 Mar 08
Hi myworkid, I can see that you have a problem here. How old is your daughter? I'm asking this because I've seen small children scream at a cat and chase them around the house. If I hadn't intervened I'm sure the cat would have bitten the child. Sometimes cats will get very scared by loud noises too. Of course you can't have the cat clawing your daughter, so it might be an idea to sent him to your parents farm and get another. All cats are not alike. I don't like the idea of declawing, because I once saw a cat that had recently been declawed, it looked like he had suffered terribly. Blessings.
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@Foxfire1875 (2010)
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3 Mar 08
If your cat is still young you can train him to keep his claws in, by gently pushing the claws in and saying claws to him. I did this with my cat and even when she got over excited playing I could get her to not scratch by just saying claws to her.
If he isn't then you'd be better giving him to someone else, as declawing is a horrible thing to do to a cat. Maybe get some other type of pet or get a kitten and train it. There is no reason to think that another cat will or won't scratch your daughter, are you sure it isn't your daughter that makes the cat want to scratch her? Children can be unintentionally rough with animals.
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@Annmac (949)
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3 Mar 08
firstly I know why Cats get mean after de-clawing! It's because the act is the same as amputation of a limb in a human and a lot of the time it causes phantom pains, you'd soon get mean if you were in pain, wouldn't you? My friend is a Vet and even if the operation was legal here in the UK he wouldn't do it. He explained to me when I first heard of this barbaric practise what the operation does and I was horryfied that anyone who claims to love an animal could do such a thing.
I've lost count of the cats I've owned or fostered in the last 50+ years, and I've only once had a cat scratch a child. It was what my daughter was doing to the cat and once I corrected her behaviour she was never scratched again. Cats are not cuddly toys and most children are far too rough with them. If you de-claw the cat then it's next line of defence will be it's teeth and cat bites become infected far more often than dog bites do.
Getting rid of one cat and replacing it with another is not a good example to set your daughter either. She'll grow up with little respect for animals unless you teach her that keeping them is about making a long term commitment (Cats can live well over 20 years) and treating them with respect!
Buy some claw covers, or learn to clip the cats nails and teach your daughter the correct ways to handle and play with a cat.
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@Annmac (949)
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3 Mar 08
I wonder if your Tigger is related to my girl Kia? She was just the same with feet! To train my Cats I normally yelp loudly when attacked and grab the skin of the neck just as a Mum cat would do if a kitten got too boistrious. Normally we have 2 or more cats and at least 1 dog and I've learned that when it comes to correcting bad behaviour Mum knows best! Kia quickly learned that she can 'play' only when I invite her to (as I don't mind her doing it gently when my feet are protected) and she never attacks other humans. Her favourite fighting partner is my German Shepherd who puts up with a great deal. She's an indoor cat and the first I've had that by choice won't go outside so has to find ways to satisfy her desire to hunt!
I always ignore 'Meowing' for attention when they are kittens, so if my Cats do start making a noise it's a sign something is wrong.
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