I don't know whether i should be breaking up with my boyfriend! How do i?
By TTdolphin
@TTdolphin (42)
China
March 3, 2008 1:57am CST
I have been together with my boyfriend of two years!We have been through a lot of things together finally!Past,we have always been remote Love! Now we are in a city!It is because that i gave up my town came to the city where he is in!However, perhaps the near distance,we also increased the contradictions!Now,i feel very aggrieved! I would like to break up,but he don't agree!I am really afraid of the future we will constantly quarrel!As our feelings will grandually fade away!Instead, it's better to break up now!It would also leave to our good memories!
How do i?If it is you,how do you
4 responses
@sisco100 (2338)
• United States
29 Mar 08
its not easy but sometimes it has to be done. well first the question is do u live on ur own or with him. if alone, then tell him its over, and explane why ur braking up with him. it really dosent matter if we wants it or not. if ur unhappy then u shouldnt have to suffer just to make him happy cuz thts not wht love is and if he even care about u or loved u he would understand tht. this dosent me tht u cant be friends with him. sometime people make better friennds then partners. i wouldnt suggest sending him any email, texts or doing it over the phone. just tell him how u feel and the truth, dont try to sugur coat it.
@jc00771 (155)
• China
6 Mar 08
yeah i understood your puzzlement as there is a saying said 'distance makes beauty', when you are not in the same town you can imagine how nice he is ,just much better than he really be. when you come to each other and be under same roof or something like that, you start to find out his shortcoming s and in a sense you may disappointed,which may cause further conflicts between you. however i surggest you think it over before you make up the decision of breake up or not. as what i said just now is natural and can happen to anyone for people in love. so try to think about if you can accept his shortcoming and if you still love him for his avantage. then when you make the decision you may have choosed a reasonable one and won't be too regrateful in the future days...
@bobevanse (36)
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3 Mar 08
True love needs time. Every couple quarrels but they are much nearer after quarrelling. You should know why you both quarrel so often and whether you can fix it. It is easy to give up a relationship, but it is difficult to find a true one.
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3 Mar 08
if u want break up but ur b/f dont want then y u want ,may b he luvs u ,but always remember "we got the true friend he/she once in life " .And this is all up 2 u wat u think ,just try 2 understand him n if u feel that he realy luvs u n take care of u then its ok if u dont match these simmilarity ,then leave him .Tnx Bye "if u want contact me on my id american_dollarsound@yahoo.com "
