Has YOur Partner Ever Made you feel guilty for past indiscretions?
By April
@cloud_kicker_32 (4635)
United States
March 4, 2008 12:52am CST
Sooo YOu have been dating for a week...a few months..Or YOu have even been married for 25 years....And the Question eventually comes up.."how many Poeple have u been with sexually?It comes up all the time for many many people..and some people have ghad a few...and othersssss...wellll...u have run out of fingers and toes..lol lol..So have they ever made u feel guilty? Dont worry NO ONE wil be judged..for me.oh yesss..many many times..it didnt matter if there was one or 100 lol..Girls just dont doo that..In a mans thinking..or there bad..whatever..men do it and there heros..woman....well u know know the big ol' W word...rrrghhh!! oh well..so tell me has it happened to you?
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
4 Mar 08
my partner has tried, but I told him wear to get off, I do not judge him for what he has done in the past and he will not get away with judging me either.
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@cloud_kicker_32 (4635)
• United States
7 Mar 08
well rose..im soo glad u have ur life together..and have such a wonderful relationship..u have soemthing that most of us look for our whole lives..and im thankful such a wonderful prson like you has him..take care!
April
@Kaeli72 (1229)
• United States
4 Mar 08
Ain't that the truth? One of my first discussions was kinda based on your last sentance.
I've been married three times...and this last one is breaking up as well. HE has mentioned several times in argument how many times I've been maried. It's not my fault...well, yeah it is, I said "Yes" when I should have said, "Go away or I'll have you arrested."
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@cloud_kicker_32 (4635)
• United States
7 Mar 08
Ughhhh...im soo sorry to hear about your marriage goin to hell..He sounds liek HE needs to grow up and accept everyone has secrets and a past..and hell i have a cemetary in my closet! hahahahahah!!seriouisly lol..men can be such jerks and its usually aalllll about them..and he has noo room at all to judge you..your human and we all make mistakes..and hellloooo like the whole prob is urs right??WHATEVER!!!!kickem to the curb..he sounds like aa big jerk..if u ever need an eas hunny im here..just add me if u want.take care..luv April
@newzealtralian (3930)
• Australia
9 Mar 08
Nope, we talk about everything and if there is something that bothers the other, we keep talking about it. My partner and I have been through sooo much in the 7 years we have been together, and we don't hold anything against the other because no matter who caused the issue, the other feels some responsibility for what happened too.
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@Rowan82 (5)
• United States
7 Mar 08
OMG I can't even begin to tell you how many times my boyfriend has thrown out the W word. He hasn't been with that many ppl. I, however, have..tee hee hee. But anyway, he assumes that I've been with hundreds of men because I had to stop and think about how many there were. And whenever we argue he is quick to bring that up.
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