Do you belive in live in relationship?
By nehaaaa
@nehaaaa (1748)
India
10 responses
@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
4 Mar 08
I don't mind being a live-in relationship..Perhaps no boy would go against it.. Are you willing to be in one.. i m ready by the way..lol..
But i think that this relationship is based on mutual understanding.. and i feel thats its not necessary for two lovers to be binded by the restriction of marriage for being together.. After all its their lives.. So they should decide what they wanna do with it.. I may be sounding strange but i don't understand y do people don't accept this.. Its almost similar to marriage except that they haven't followed the rituals to be together..
I know its more of a curse in Indian culture.. its against it.. But comeon..the world is changing..
What do you think about it neha.. U didnt express your views??
@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
5 Mar 08
Hmm.. U contradict your own views.. U say that there is no harm in live-in relationship and then you say that people should get married.. What would you do.. Lets say.. u find a boyfriend that u really are in love with.. u can't live wihout him.. But at the same time the guy is not ready to get married.. May be he wants to set up his career first and being married may b a hurdle.He has no problems either with live-in relationship.. So what would you do? Would you go for a live-in relationship with that guy or would u wait until he prepares himself for marriage..??
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
4 Apr 08
No i dont believe in live-ins. I beleive in marriage, when dating a guy you gotta know him well to love n understand him and if you r ready , go ajead n marry. Well you will eventually find out if you can live with him or not, but when solomnized with marriage , its more graceful and legally right. At least there r more merits in a marriage, even if it doesnt work out..
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
18 Mar 08
Yes, ive been with this relationship and it is great too not a nice idea though specially if you two are not married.. You got to know the person in one roof.. know their flaws how they look after themselves and know what they are like at home. then you have the idea of the guy owr the woman you are going to be with for the rest of your life.
@CheshireKat (564)
• United States
17 Mar 08
I am for live in relationships, not because of the lack of strings, but because I would want to know if I could actually live with someone before marrying them. If he becomes a slob with a woman in the house, and would have me doing -all- of the household chores, it definitely wouldn't work out, and there's no way to know that without living with him. (Because no one knows how things like that will go until they're going.)
@romit19540 (159)
• India
4 Mar 08
As far as iam concerned i think the issue of livein is completely a personal matter some may think that its good for two people living together and sharing all the benefits without marrying .But other would feel that its totally a 'nonsense' and 'absurd' to be living with other person without really getting committed in front of society (ie marriage).Hmm i somehow feel that livein's are good as long as two people involved in that are happy.
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
5 Mar 08
Hi there! I used to be in a live in relationship before my husband and I got married. We used to live together and I conceived out of wedlock. But later on, I understood that it's against the law of chastity and we got married before I gave birth to our son.
@shalom123 (51)
• India
4 Mar 08
I can't practice that. Live-in relationship has many drawbacks than merits. The best part people say about this is that it does not have any strings attached. But is it the only base for a relationship. Can any relationship be built without any attachment. I fail to understand those
who support this system..
@banerowe (75)
• Philippines
17 Mar 08
Yes. It is already proven to work, despite its many detractors. But I think it would be better to check first whether the religion or culture of your partner allows it. This is why your question spurred different answers. The differences between religion and culture dictated the peoples reply. But it is yes for me, even if it is not widely accepted here where I am at.