Do you always say what you think .....
@rainbow2007star (920)
March 4, 2008 3:33am CST
or what comes up in your mind in different occasions? When somebody ask you about something do you answer to this question with the thought you've think at or do you answer in different way, maybe just to not hurt his feeling? Do you do it always or just for special people and in special occasions?
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
4 Mar 08
I am very unpopular in my relatives circle, though I am very much appreciated in the friend's circle, because I have the habit of speaking out the truth always. But then this characteristics of mine brings greater happiness than to hide the information or failure to speak out.
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@rainbow2007star (920)
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4 Mar 08
My twin sister is like you she says always what she thinks even at people that might think something wrong is going to with this person. "cause she doesn't care to tell always the truth.This is my opinion she said if you don't want it why are you asking me? I think that she is right but by myself I try not tu hurt people with my responses so sometime I just avoid to answer this way they'll not be hurt and I'll be in peace with my consience.Thanks for response
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
4 Mar 08
A right thinking person always welcome the staright forward person, who can speak upright, without hiding for the sake of courtesy, manners or due to inhibitions like "Why hurt others'.
By not speaking out at right time, time place and of course right words, tomorrow you should not feel regret the situation which would have been really god had been for straightforwardness.
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@Bev1986 (1425)
• United States
4 Mar 08
I always try to watch what I say... I've been around enough people who could care less what comes out of their mouth and they've hurt a lot of people, and I don't want to be like them. Often times, they are bitter and sad people and they just want to make others feel as badly as they do. I don't mean that everyone who speaks their piece is like that, but believe me, quite a few of them are.
I don't ever like to hurt anyone's feelings. I try to word things so that they come across nicely, not meanly.
My mother has a habit of saying whatever she feels like and I can't tell you how many times she's hurt my feelings...
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
4 Mar 08
I have the habit of saying what I think to the point that I unknowingly offended somebody. When I do realize that I have offended a person by my thoughtless comments or statements, I would immediately apologize profusely. There are even times that people completely thought that I am so crazy because I said something that is just out of the norm. But I just laugh about it and don't mind what they think. What is important to me is that I am being honest and have purposefully hurt somebody.
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@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
4 Mar 08
I try to get my point across with as little insult as possible. Sometime the truth hurts. However, if you care about the person you are speaking of, you should take great care in how you address the issue. So, I try to do that.
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@queenofarms (1659)
• United States
4 Mar 08
I always say the truth...I feel if you don't want the true then don't ask me..I always ask the person do you want my true feelings or do you want me to lie?
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@Wario_1 (965)
• Sweden
4 Mar 08
I often do that, im very outspoken and im not afraid of pissing people off or making them angry. However i really try to say what i want in a way that i both make my point and not hurt anyone, just because i dont have any problems saying bad things doesnt make me like to do it.
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