Reasons why LIFE without a Girl Friend is cool
By andyvish
@andyvish (901)
India
March 4, 2008 8:18am CST
1. You can stare at any Girl.......
2. You don't have to spend money on her.
3. You won't get boring result in ur board papers.
4. No girlfriend, no emotional blackmailing.
5. If u don't have a girlfriend, she can't dump u.
6. Having a girlfriend is hot, not having a girlfriend is automatically cool, and every one loves to be a cool guy.
7. This can be more to life than just waiting for the bloody phone to ring.
8. You won't have to tolerate someone else defining, "right" and "wrong" for u.
9. Girlfriend can get so possessive that you can't do anything according ur wishes anymore.
10. You can buy gifts for mom, dad, sis or grandpa instead of a girlfriend and have a happier family life.
11. You won't have to waste paper writing love letters. No more endless waiting for ur date to arrive at some weird shop place.
12. You can have more friends, as u will have more time for them.
13. You wont have to see boring love stories instead of sports.
14. You wont have to tell lie to anybody and, therefore, u'll sin less.
15. You can have good night's sleep-no need to dream about her.
16. You wont have to fight over having a 'special' friend with ur folks.
17. No nonstop nonsense.
18. You wont have drown in the pool of her tears.
19. No tension.
20. You can be "urself"
21. You wont have to hide your telephone bills.....
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14 responses
@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
4 Mar 08
Good thing you don't have a girlfriend, I don't think there is one out there that would put up with lieing, cheating, hiding the phone bill....cause you made calls you shouldn't have? I have a boyfriend and as his girlfriend.........he still looks at other women, but then again I look at other men.....we just look. He doesn't have to spend money on me, I have my own job. I don't use emotional blackmailing, I hate head games. I don't tell him what is right or wrong, he has a brain, and he's a grown man. I'm not possessive, I don't tell him what to do and when to do it.........example, he goes out for a night with the guys, yep at a bar, I trust him! If he has sports on I watch with him, when I want, I happen to love football, nascar and getting into hockey. I go to his parent's home for holidays, and dinners, etc. there is not 'explaining' he even told them he was flying to Texas to meet me, and then I moved to PA, they thought it was great. He can always be hisself, he doesn't have to hide his phone bill, to keep calls from me, and I don't hide mine. Sounds to me like you might need to growup a little before having a girlfriend, which is not a bad thing, at least you aren't wasting some girls time.
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@luckydolphin98 (168)
• Australia
5 Mar 08
I guess its fortunate that you dont have a girlfriend :) But I seriously pity you, because there is no love in you... when you love someone, it is the greatest feeling in the world, then you would want to spend money on her, make her happy, you tolerate her unique personality. When you love someone, you dont lie to them :) of course you wont drown in her tears because you will want to make her happy and not cry because of you. A proper relationship doesnt have blackmailing included in it... truthfully, I think you better learn to love ... or miss out a great life.
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@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
4 Mar 08
Haha that was funny. I agree that they try to define what is "right" and what is "wrong". I have no problem if the girl is possessive. In fact I love it because it makes me feel that she really wants me.
As long as you're not cheating you don't have to lie or hide your phone bills. If you want to screw around you really shouldn't be in a committed relationship.
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
4 Mar 08
with the exception of a couple of things on your list such as the hiding phone bill, cheating etc., I could not agree with you more! I am a woman and for many of those reasons, I am perfectly content with not having a boyfriend. I just recently broke up with mine because he was too clingy, too needy etc. I think I have just met the wrong men and do not assume that all guys are like what i've experienced. If I can't feel I can be myself or that my guy is not at least self-sufficient, then I really can't be bothered. It is good that you are comfortable with being on your own.
@livintx49 (245)
• United States
4 Mar 08
i may have to print this out and let my sons read this!!!!! however if it wasn't for a girl you wouldn't be here. I'm for a guy that will buy his mother something anyway. My boys do that plus take me out to eat or whatever.I have also taught them to be gentlemen. so be careful out there
@msanin (131)
• Canada
4 Mar 08
if your gonna have a gf just to cheat on her and treat her so its better not to have one.. but if your starting to think about having a serious relationship then gf can be really convenient because they can give what ur friends CAN'T give you. there are certain thing that won't like to tell your friends.. sometimes friends can be a pain too because they can be the best friends till they find a gf so it totally depends on what you want..
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@Sunmav (53)
• India
5 Mar 08
life without a girl friend may be coool or may not becoz it depends from person to person .. like what ever points u have mentioned there is also correct .. i too agree with u .. but like every coin will have two faces this also have two faces .... at the end of the day im u r side what u have told same i too agree .. girl bole to its like "virus" in a computer ... some times it may helps u sometimes it may harm u r systems workings .. nd finally u need to format u r computer .. [:)] kidding dude ...
@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
5 Mar 08
Wonderful Reasons .. And i must say that i m lucky in this case... Not having a particular girlfriend allows us to stare at other girls but don't u wish at the same time for that girl to be your girlfriend..lol ??
And yea..emotional blackmailing.. thats the prime weapon that girls use against guys.. so its better to be away from it..
No girl friend ..so no distraction ..so better perormance in your papers but what if a girl sits besides you when u r giving your exam..???
No more arguments about who is right and who is wrong?
We can spend the whole lot of money on ourselves..
No more waiting for the mobile to ring and start telling lies about what u did last nyt or y did u come late or whatever..
No more fixed appointments and can do whatever we wish at anytime..
I agree with PINKON that we can get some emotional support from a girl but she need not be our girlfriend..
@BYOLA2871 (4371)
• South Africa
4 Mar 08
yes you seem to to have a list of seemingly cool reasons not to have a girlfriend,but may i ask you how do take care of those needs that yur mail friends,grandpa,sis,mum,brother etc cannot provide?if you get my drift?besides witha girlfriend if you are quite frank enough with each other you have no qualms,man is not meant to be alone,please get a girlfriend..........(hehehehehe)
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@dacavalcante (11)
• Brazil
5 Mar 08
hahaha So funny!
Well but it's actually very very true. But sometimes you have to take some steps ahead in your life that needs to go into all these restrictions....
Well, until you're ready to marry and have your family, you could avoid long dating.
Or if you're lucky, you can find someone that thinks just like you and still wants to make a family... but it's difficult... "=]
