Bad Girl...Bad Wife..B*thN

i totally would have done the same i cant stand smoking-but i can kind of relate to how your acting. it seems like when i am bitter or pick fights with my boyfriend just for the heck of it there is something else that is bothering me-like something else we need to resolve. do you think its anything like that? and you shouldnt feel guilty-just think about how your really feeling and be able to tell him

Maybe the reason you aren't feeling well is because you have been sucking in all that second hand smoke!! I wouldn't feel bad about picking on him for smoking. He shouldn't be doing it around you at all. Also, by you talking to him about smoking it shows that you care for him....you want him to be around longer than he will be if he keeps smoking.

I really don't think you should feel any guilt to your husband right now. You may even have a point in picking him about his smoking because I feel smoking is really bad for you as a second hand smoke is even deadlier than the smoker itself. So I guess that you may want to change is the way you present your issues to your husband maybe next time make it more subtler and a bit stronger for him to really feel that the issues are indeed valid. Most men do hear the issues when talked about in a manner not offensive to them.