falling in-love with a FRIEND

Yup.. and that's y human and feelings are always very hard to catch and say if it's real.. Love is always about sacrifices and it all depends on weather u think its worth the sacrifices ^_^ However, there are a minority of couples who still will remain as frenz even after break up..

You are absolutely right kun2349! Most friendships develop into love because of much closeness. A friend always sees and brings out the best in you. With this, it is very impossible not to fall for our friends. And I would say that it is indeed a very great feeling. But the very sad part on that is when you fall for a friend and eventually be your friend's lover, things won't be the same. You have moved to the next level which is quite risky because if you two will break up, usually the friendship is as well affected and you two would probably end up hating each other. Loving a friend is a wonderful feeling and at the same time risky.

Hi there plainhousewife! I am so glad to hear your story. And I am just so happy to hear that true love still works out in this modern world. Like what I have mentioned above that falling in-love with a friend is actually one of the sweetest things in the world yet may also be the saddest one. Several years ago, I fell in-love with my best friend. I would say that I consider myself the happiest person in the world. I used to say that I just couldn't ask for more since I had him. Yet, destiny played a game on us that led us to separation. At first, I thought I couldn't survive but thank God for I was still able to manage my way. But the sad reality is, such incident made me numb.

As I have mentioned above subha12, it is never really difficult to love as FRIEND. As you have said, when there is an existing good friendship, strong bond is present. Simply because of understanding, trust, and care. And that is simply the reason why it is not difficult to love a friend. Yet it is also risky because as they say, there is actually a very thin separation between love and hate. And when hate takes over, the very beautiful friendship fades. It is so sad yet it is the reality in life. We all know that life is never fair. Sometimes you are up and sometimes you are down. Till here, xoxo..

Hi luckydolphin98. First, I would like to thank you for sharing your story. We do have a similar story because I also fell in-love with my very own best friend before. We did have a very nice relationship. I would say that I was very lucky to have someone like him. I know that I almost had everything knowing that I have someone who knows me inside out as I do to him. Yet, destiny has been quite cruel to us that led us to separation. It is really sad to know losing someone like him yet I know it's part of life. Getting hurt and learning new things that has eventually made me a better ME. The saddest thing that was brought by our separation was losing such wonderful friendship. And because of that, I once told myself that I would never fall for a friend ever again. I would rather save the friendship because it is not really easy to lose a very dear friend. But it was over and all I could do is learn and get a new life! Till here, God bless.

Hello kreinao! Thank you for sharing your story with us here. And I am honestly sad to hear that. But life is never really fair. I, myself is a victim of that one too. It only makes me sick and sad each time I remember my very nice yet painful experience in the past. But because of it, I am now a better person than before. I hope you also do the same. Cheers!

Hello iamhari123! I respect your opinion about this matter. Well, since we all have our own uniqueness as persons, we do have different views in life. And since we are all unique, we obviously have different experiences in life, right? I guess for others, their friends are still the same even if they became more than friends but there are also other people who experience different thing too. *wink *wink *wink

Yes, I do agree with you. Falling in-love with a friend is at times so scary. Because we will never know its outcome. It would either be positive or negative. For several people, their relationship was a success but for some, it wasn't. Why I say scary because if the relationship wouldn't work out that fine, the friendship itself would greatly be affected. But I also believe that loving your best friend is one of the sweetest things in the world. On the other hand, could also be the saddest thing especially if things won't work out that smooth.