Please help! I NEED ADVISE ABOUT MY DOG.

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I don't want to have to get rid of my dog, but I am afraid I might have to. I'm hoping someone has some good advise for me so that I don't have to. It's a long story so bare with me. We had to go to out of state to pick up some of our belongings that were left behind after we moved. My fiance's aunt and uncle, who is also his boss, offered to watch our small dog while we were away. I took them up on the offer and trusted them because they own three dogs, two horses, and were also watching their daughter's dog(because she was traveling with us). We ended being gone longer than we planned because our Jimmy broke down in Georgia, then my son got sick and was hospitalized in Georgia. We kept in touch with my fiance's aunt and uncle because they had our dog and also they were the boss, so they knew everything that was going on. We left the hospital on a Monday night. Earlier that day we called them to say we would be home in the morning. They told us that our dog, Dixie, has dropped off at our house Monday and that they left the house key under the mat for us. At the time we thought that they meant that day Monday. It turned out to be the previous Monday, yet they never mentioned this in any previous calls when we were inquiring about our dog. When we arrived home at 2am, instead of our dog greeting us at the door she was shaking in the corner. She had pooped all over and urinated on every corner of every throw rug in the house. Mind you we rent a house, and by the way the landlord happened to stop by while we were away to drop off the lease and saw the poop. Instead of being relieved to be home I was devastated. My dog had quit eating and was nothing but bones. I think she quit eating because she didn't want to have to go to the bathroom in the house anymore. I hoped that my dog would be ok and that after gaining weight back and a regular bathroom ruitine was reinforced that everything would be fine. But I realized very quickly that something was wrong with her. Apparently while in the care of relatives she had been kept in her crate, which is no big deal, except that she was kept in it so long that she pooped in it several times.(this is the first time she has pooped in her crate) After a few days of that they dropped her off at my house and they let her roam the whole house for a whole week. (now she jumps on the kitchen table) They claim that they came by twice a day to let her out and I'm not sure if they are telling the truth or not because I think what messed her up was that they kept her in her crate so long that she couldn't hold it in anymore (several times) and that it messed her up and that now she has trouble holding her bowels and urine. The first day we were back home she kept pooping every 20 minutes or so, and many of those times was in the house, mind you before this she went once or twice a day (outside of course). So the next day I put her outside every twenty minutes and it still wasn't helping. She had no control at all of her bowels. I can't have a dog do this where I live not only will my landlord throw me out but I have a toddler running around. As the week went by she did get better and I thought with a little time the problem would fix itself. It has been almost two months now. She still has accidents almost every day. I try my hardest to avoid it. She's let outside in the morning before I even go to the bathroom, before I even change my son's diaper. When we leave I put her in her crate. I just don't know what else to do. I don't want to get rid of her. I have had her for almost three years and my son loves her. But I can't loose my home and I can't stand a dog using my rugs as a toilet. But I'm afraid that if we take her to the pound they will put her to sleep. If anyone has any advise I could really use it. But please don't try to say that she's doing this out of spite because we left her for 10 days. When she was 6 months old I flew to New York for the week. Had someone come over twice a day and let her out. She had no accidents and was fine when we came home. She has always been a very good dog until this and like I said it's been almost two months now. I know I could keep her in her crate all the time but what kind of life is that? And she's now the type of dog that you can leave outside on the leash 24/7. She has slept by my feet on my bed for too long to be able to fully adjust to outdoor life. I don't know what to do and I have cried about this too many times now. On top of it all it has caused a lot of fighting between me and my fiance because it was his family that did this to us and I don't think that I will ever forgive them. If it weren't for the fact that my fiance would loose his job I would have had them prosecuted for abusing an animal. They have not apologized to me or admitted any wrong so I am not talking to them anymore because of how bad they have hurt me. Please, please can anyone help me?