do you think dat long distance love is good n relationship runs long..

Hi neha.. This is similar to one discussion i had started earlier.. I had narrated one incident that occured to me.. If u get time i would like you to visit that discussion and let me know about what should i do in my situation... Long-Distance Relationships.. I have stopped believing in them somewhat until and unless they turn out into real life relationships as oon as possible.. I had been in one relationship which ended up after 3 years but we could not see each other even once in 3 years.. Though i still tried to be in touch but there was no response from the other side.. U tell me.. Will u agree to have a long-distance love relationship with me?

I've been in a long distance relationship before. No doubt it was very hard, especially with the time difference. i have no idea how i survived that, but i did. drove me nuts at times and made me cry too. but there are many means to keep in touch; telephone, email, IMs, digi cam..etc. i missed him a lot, every single second and wish i could see him or for him to be physically there with me, whenever i was sad or happy. you need to have a solid trust, as you're not able to see what your other half is doing. And you need to have lots of faith, enough to not make you give up on your relationship. but i believe, in the end, love is what that holds you together. if two people really love each other, no matter how far they apart they are, they'll be able to go thru the relationship. love knows no boundaries;).

It definately depends on the couple...I have been in a long distance relationship for 11 yrs now..there have been rough patches and we didnt speak for 2, almost 3 yrs but we're both stubborn and we love each other so we talk it out etc etc...Visiting can be tough especially since I dont drive and have two kids (my husband doenst mind staying with them though which is cool and he's actually driven me the 8 hours to go see my other guy on occasion)....I think two very key things in a long distance relationship is #1 COMMUNICATION!!! you HAVE TO be open and honest with each other and not worry aobut bringing up issues etc etc..also talking as often as possible is a must too IMO...#2 TRUST!! you really really have to be able to trust each other which is where I had issues for a bit there (mind you he didnt help matters any LOL)...also a third important thing is when you DO get to see each other..make the visits high quality..spend time together alone rather than being on the go doing this that and the other thing ya know.... It takes work to be in a long distance relationship but then again ANY relationship takes work..it just so happens that the work needed for l.d's is a little different thats all..

i think long distance relationships can last long.. only the couple have to try twice as much.

Yes it depends on couple. Long distance relationship are still common and there are persons who are presently in long distance relationship. It depends on the love and understanding between the couple. Sometimes long distance relationship is better than the normal relationship and the relationship gets much deeper than usual.

Yeah it does depend on the people, but I just don't understand how it can work. My sister did it for a while somehow, for about 18months, but it just hasn't worked out - it got to much fr her having to make the effort all the time etc. I dont think I could do it. I tried it for a while once and he ended up sleeping with one of my friends back home... lol my bad luck I know

it depends on the situation, the people involved. long distance relationships work when there is constact contact, communication. also trust is the most important part of it.

Long term relationship require a special willingness and understanding that can test love like no other relationship can.It requires constant communication and desire to continully create your realtionship, using the only real tool you have(your words)

Hi there! Yes, I agree with you that it depends upon the couple. Personally, I won't survive a long distance relationship. I admire couples who are able to handle it well and are able to make that kind of relationship last.

Are you in one? If it is as serious as a man and wife relationship, in my opinion is the relationship should take place for a man and a woman, then no. A man and his wife should live as one body and couldn't do so apart. There are a lot of blessings with keeping this relation with respect but sadly in our times it is not viewed by many. I wonder if they would experience infidelity if this is relation is properly viewed? I guess there wouldn't be hurt from trust, common nowadays making it not a big deal to be with a lot of people, A man will always need a woman. It is just as his being is created for. I try to put my trust in something and let actions define its meaning. In the long run, actions will bring out true definition of people of who they are. The only best thing to do when such worst ocassion arises is to know how we handle it when it comes since it is easy to panick in such states. It is impossible to bring back what is done. It would be difficult to share in two different lives apart. It is still different living together than apart. Besides, it is much more fun being together with the person you care for unless you rush into a relationship which you are unsure of. Sometimes, in this light, I remember a reading a book. The more you spend time reading it, you either like it or not or even feel bored if you don't open your mind to it. At the end, you'll know if you wasted your time on it. Or if worse comes to worse, if such things arise, you can get the most out of it. I hope the best for you.

i think that if the two of you have a committed relationship and are totally devoted to one another and truly love one another, then yes, long distance relationships can be good. When you have those things, your relationship can go so much higher because the only thing you have are each other's voices and the things you say to one another. God bless

Kind about right, it depends on the couple. Absense makes the heart grows fonder, they say. But if you are flirtatious, even living right next door, the couple might have problems. It's trust above everything else.

I think is good because not many couple are manage their relationship runs long.Its not easy.Long distance is such a test to the couple it is good if they "passed" the test =)