Anger Management

Philippines
March 5, 2008 6:21am CST
Do you ever slam the door after a shouting match with your boyfriend? Ever put your fist through the wall after an argument with your bud? Controlling your temper isn't always easy, my blood boils after minor irritations and physiologically, my body wants to fight back, developing muscle tension or an increase in heart rate and blood pressure that increases adrenaline that makes me want to stab that monster!! I know that it's pretty unrealistic to expect everyone to behave exactly as you want but for once people should act according to their responsibilities and most importantly act as a matured one but not for my senpai/sempai (japanese for someone higher than you in terms of year level). Darn! he's pretty immature about stuffs and he loves to mingle about people's personal lives especially their love life's and most of all he had this certain behavior that will really drive you nuts! I already talked to him about these stuffs, but there's no use. I just hope he'll realized about the things he's been doing and i really hope it's not too late.. but how can i help him?
3 responses
@TAPARIA (314)
• India
5 Mar 08
dear fiend why do ou want to change him. the only person you can change in this world is yourself. to keep temper down i had also done many things including consulting a psychiatrist but i finally got solution from turning to GOD. the more you read spiritual books the more you get control on youself
• Philippines
6 Mar 08
i never want to change him.. i only want to talk to him, but unfortunately, he had this smug sense of superiority that tells me " i don't need your piece of advice" and it's making me sad.
@lancingboy (1385)
• United States
4 Apr 08
I'd like to know how to control anger too! In my household, we do not show our emotions because we keep them all bottled up. That's what I have to do all the time because talking about my feelings will not help with anything. My advice to anyone around me when I do start to let my anger out is to get as far away from me as possible. That's because I totally blow up lol! I start yelling, throwing things and slamming doors. People have told me that I'm scary when I yell.
• United States
5 Mar 08
I have done stupid things after an arguement such as breaking or throwing my home phone and or cell phone. This has only left me with items that I have to replace. I have never thought of using physical violence towards another person but I do get mad. Sounds to me that if your boyfriend or bud makes you this angry maybe you two need some time apart. Goodluck to you.