My daughter the writer

March 5, 2008 11:16am CST
My 12 year old daughter is a talented and enthusiastic writer. She has written several books already and is way above her years in vocabulary and creative thinking. She even corresponds with established childrens authors like Jeremy strong. Do you think she would get anything out of the writing section here at Mylot, you know, ideas, advice,encouragement and that sort of thing. Is she allowed to use this site? I'm so new but I'd rather she spend time on a friendly site like this one than on You Tube and Bebo like she does now. what do people think?
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@Darkwing (21583)
6 Mar 08
Your daughter, indeed, sounds to be very talented and I would encourage that as much as is humanly possible. I like to write too. I'm not sure that she would get a lot of support or advice in Mylot, and I'm not sure about the joining age, but she could do worse than to try posting a few items on Helium.com, and AssociatedContent.com. I write on both these sites. Being in the UK she might just get paid for page views but it's good to get other people's comments on your work. There's also a self-publishing facility on Lulu.com, where you publish foc, but pay a percentage of your sales revenue to Lulu. That might be of interest to her. Good luck to your daughter, and Brightest Blessings.
@Darkwing (21583)
7 Mar 08
You're welcome, Jim, and yes, Lulu is quite reputable... several people in Mylot will vouch for that... (seeds for another discussion?) :) Helium is ok, and they do help you with your writing. They've invited me to become a steward as part of a team on there, which are geared to help the writers with any difficulties they have. We have forums to discuss any queries the writers might have. I haven't confirmed yet, but I must do it over the weekend. However, Helium isn't quite as oppressive as it looks, it's building to be a very useful site, and you can write articles for the market place, where if the publishers like your work, they might make you an offer for it, to place it in their publications... magazines, etc. So there might be an opportunity there. I don't blame you there, because when I first joined, it took me a fair while to find my way around. lol. Brightest Blessings.
6 Mar 08
Thanks for the suggestions Darkwing. I note you've had a visit on some of my other discussions too. My girl is looking in on this thread with me now and i think she is well impressed with the discussion so far. I had heard of lulu but didn't know if it was reputable or not. Helium looks a bit intimidating to me but needs more checking out before making up our minds. There have been a lot of good suggestions so far, we'll take a while to check them all out.
• South Africa
10 Mar 08
It's great to hear about your daughter, she sounds very much like I was - I was writing little story books from about eight years of age and today am a full-time freelance writer. Personally I feel like she would probably benefit more from websites such as Squidoo and HubPages. These pages will allow her to write whatever she likes while still having a sense of community where you can get friends and fans, comment on people's pages, etc. I feel that MyLot is fun for commenting but as a writer (or potential writer) find it more limited. I have briefly looked at the terms on Squidoo and Hub Pages and they do not seem to have any restrictions regarding an age to sign up.
10 Mar 08
Those sound like good suggestions to me, thanks. Will check them out
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
5 Mar 08
Hi, She must be cool...12 yrs and a writer in making. I must admit that i was very dumb at that age. I was in my own world and that is how they should be. Well mylot is a nice site and as she is just 12 yrs u can keep an eye on what she is posting and communicating with. We all know internet is a dangerous place and if we use it wisely its a very useful place. So dont force anything and let her decide on what she wants to write in. Looking forward to her posts! Cheers, Tutul
• Philippines
8 Mar 08
I'm 15 and I started here on MyLot when I was 14. If she's mature in thinking (which I think corresponds to me too), then, she might be able to like it in here. She'll be enjoying, learning and earning money at the same time. And, who knows, maybe she'll be more popular here in MyLot and it will be a way in gaining popularity for her books.
8 Mar 08
Yes, i think that she will have some good avantages in life. She should carry on her writing carrear and sort out a publisher soon. And i like your idea on the open screen thing, very masure. Lol ^^ x x x x Cazziecaz5 x x x x
5 Mar 08
If she is intelligent enough and mature enough she could get a lot out of the writers section here at MyLot. And if she has novel sized work done, no matter how good, and is corresponding with respected authors without your assistance I assure you she is ready. I would suggest she first look for a site dedicated to young writers, or one with more young writers. I can only think of DeviantArt at the moment. It would be somewhere for her to post her work, rather than talk with others about 'writing' in general. It is not dedicated to young writers, but there are an awful lot of them on there. The writing community is very friendly and any critiquing is always offered in a helpful and constructive way. You could always post discussions for her and let her read and contribute to the responses. If MyLot does not allow 12 year olds to sign up. Thinking about it, Neopets USED to have a big writing forum. Again very friendly and very helpful... and dedicated to youngsters. Although much of the writing there is Neo-orientated, she will be able to talk about writing and get advice from people close to her own age. Neh, I should seek out more writing sites. lol
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5 Mar 08
Thanks, I've heard of deviant art but I've not been on that site in a long while. Part of the reson for starting this discussion was showing her what I've been doing on various writing sites. I hoped I would get some good responses and I've not been disappointed. I think she'll likely just watch whats going on here for a while and check out some of the suggestions that have been made
@paid2write (5201)
5 Mar 08
I know there are some young people here at MyLot but they are late teens and I don't think your daughter would enjoy writing here if she was the only person in her own age group. She will enjoy other social networks more because she can chat with people of her own age. You are fortunate to have a talented daughter. It looks as if she will have a good future, whatever she chooses to do, if she can already communicate and be creative in her writing.
@nishdan01 (3051)
• Singapore
6 Mar 08
Nice to know of your daughter. If she is a writer at this age, she probably has a long way to go. Mylot is a good place to get to know about writing oppurtunities. Bit I think to use Mylot, your daughter needs to be 13. Send me a message so that I can invite your daughter to another writing site. I will add you as my friend at Mylot.
6 Mar 08
Thanks. She'll be 13 in a couple of months time but I thought she might get to know the writing pages first. I'll send that message
@mohnish (116)
• India
6 Mar 08
Simply great only few people are blessed this kind of talent ,i must congratulate you on this gesture and ill advise you to encourage her in life.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
7 Mar 08
I believe she can use this site. I run an adult e-zine filled with stories and poems, I am a writer and published author myself, you as the parent is welcome to join the e-zine and she can publisher her poems there is she likes.That is a great way to encourage a young writer/poet
7 Mar 08
There certainly does seem to be two definite opinions about this. So far she's just watched over my shoulder but she says to me that she thinks Mylot is "cool", so I think thats a positive response from her.
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
6 Mar 08
I would definitely not recommend MyLot. There are too many bad influences and too many adult discussions. How about getting permission from a messageboard that is specifically geared towards writing? Most messageboards require that you be 14 years of age. However, a lot of them will allow children on with parental permission (ask the moderator when you ask for permission, if the group would actually be appropriate for a young girl who is above her years in abilities, but probably not ready to learn about some of the things people post on boards, some boards have a general chatting area as well that would be inappropriate in many cases, and the moderator would be able to block that section from your daughter's view and only allow her access to the writing portion).
6 Mar 08
Thanks for your suggestions. I'm finding theres quite a broad range of opinion on this question. I also noted some other conversations going on about things like "would you let your children watch the Simpsons?" so I think theres probably quite a range of different attitudes on here. I've also found that any pages here with "adult" content have flagged up and been blocked so far so either theres a default filter or I've somehow activated one. The jury is still out on this one but I've been very pleased with the wide range of really helpful positive suggestions that I've recieved.
@heathcliff (1415)
• United States
5 Mar 08
I forget the age limit on here, someone will post it I'm sure, now that I've brought it up. 16, I thought, to be able to sign up, but I'm sure she could write under your banner. At any rate, she should be able to get into several different writing sites. I know alot of pay-to-write sites have age limits for legal reasons so it'll take a little work to find some good ones. Good Luck to her, though! And keep writing!
• United States
7 Mar 08
I don't see any reason why your daughter COULDN'T use mylot, it's a great site! And there's no one to stop her =P I know I get a lot of help from mylot, not just in the writing section, everywhere! But I think if your duaghter ever has a question, problem, general wondering, or anything about writing she could come post it here on mylot and get a lot of help and different opinions. I defeniatly don't think it would hurt anything!
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
6 Mar 08
She must be a very good writer.. It is good that you supervise your daughter and see all the potential things she can do. Coz you never know what other things she can potentially do.
6 Mar 08
In terms of creativity she is a better writer than I am. I think you've got a good point and its something I have covered in another discussion I responded to entitled "How well do you get on with your daughter". At home we have an open screen policy - that is, the internet is only on in the main living room and when two are in the room. I think that a lot of children run rings around their parents as far as IT goes. Net nannies are easily overcome! But I'm fortunate in that not only am I very computer literate but my daughter knows it as well. I've shown her that I can and do recover files she has deleted and that I can see all her computer activities (this part of our family policy on computer use and applies to me too! Apart from banking, any family member can check up on me). This is only a partial safeguard as she can and does access the internet from friends and the Library, but there are limits to what any parent can do. You just do the best you can and hope they learn a little bit from funny old dad. At least we are so close with no "no go" areas in conversation; I think that helps. I might start another discussion where I ask for opinions about some of the things I've done to keep my children safe online. I think a few people might find them a bit outrageous but I think you need to be wise in this crazy old world - its a bit different from when I was growing up.
@leeapollo (611)
• China
6 Mar 08
I'm also new here.But I find this is a good site indeed.There are various topics ,you can choose any of them to express your opinion.I think it's useful for me to improve my english and learn lots things from others.I think you should induce her to spend time on this site because its really useful.By the way ,congratulate you have such a smart daughter.